What Your Reactions Mean To A Narcissist
The Narcissists' Code
Lee Hammock
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🗓️ 9 February 2025
⏱️ 14 minutes
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Summary
Why Narcissists try to get you to react to them. What do your reactions mean to a narcissist?
I'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissistic people do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own well informed decisions.
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| 0:00.0 | going on beautiful folks today we're going to be talking about what narcissists think about your |
| 0:06.1 | reactions you're like when you're reacting to them when you're yelling at them when you're screaming |
| 0:10.8 | at them when you're just throwing stuff at them what do they think about that when you're when you're |
| 0:15.6 | responding to them when you're matching their energy what do they think about that what goes on |
| 0:19.7 | in their minds? |
| 0:23.9 | If you're new here, my name is Lee Hammock. I'm a diagnosed Narcissus. And welcome to another episode of the Narcissus's Code. Let back, folks. Welcome back. Welcome back. Welcome back. Yeah. Your reactions. Y'all know I'm a huge proponent, huge, maybe the biggest proponent in this the niche of narcissistic abuse right toxic abuse |
| 0:56.5 | of controlling your reactions now let me say this right here y'all controlling your reactions does not |
| 1:02.3 | mean being passive lee wants us to be pushovers that's what he wants us to do lee i'm not built |
| 1:08.3 | like that i got to get the last word it is i can't no lee no i'm not going to do Lee I'm not built like that I gotta get the last word in I can't get no Lee no I'm not |
| 1:13.1 | gonna do that I will not control your reactions is not about being passive y'all it's actually |
| 1:20.6 | about being in control of your reactions it's like control of your reactions is not meeting them |
| 1:25.8 | where they are I always tell people like you |
| 1:28.6 | don't have to match anybody else's energy if you already know what type of energy energy |
| 1:33.7 | that you're bringing into the table right is if you already know what you're going to say |
| 1:38.9 | and what you're going to do regardless like you don't have to match their energy so that's |
| 1:43.9 | the easiest for me I'm telling people that that's the easiest, for me, when I tell |
| 1:45.5 | people, that's probably the easiest way for you control your reactions, right? That's part of |
| 1:49.6 | the easiest way. Just to have it in your mind. But narcissists in their minds, in my mind, |
| 1:54.8 | in our minds, we think that your reaction, you reacting to us, means that you care. |
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