All right, I want to talk to you about the friend zone, and we've all heard people talk

about the friend zone, but the friend zone that I'm going to speak to you today about

is something that was taught to me in a portion of what I'm going to share with you today

was learned from my own experience.

And what the friend zone means in this context is I'm speaking to everybody, so I'm speaking

to the men and I'm speaking to the women, but when I speak right now I'm speaking to men.

I want to speak to you about your friend zone, and what I want to do when I speak to you

about your friend zones is what I share with you, I'm praying and believing is going to

help you to give definition to your relationship structure, these different zones, but not

only am I going to explain to you the different friend zones, I'm going to actually explain

to you and help you to give definition, aka, I'm going to help you to define what types

of friends belong in what phases of our relationship structure that we've created.

So the three structures and the three friend zones that you have, the first one's real

simple, it's going to be the outer court, and then you have the inner court, and those

are usually the places where most of all of your relationships go, but then there's one

layer deeper, and that third layer, especially for men, is a place that we don't let anybody

go because the men in our lives never took us into that place, and that's called the

Holy of Holies, right, and I believe that that's where real transformation happens, that's

where real identity shifts, that's where traumas lay down, that's where addictions are

broken, I believe it happens in the Holy of Holies, I don't believe it happens in the outer

court, because the outer court, the outer court is filled with your constituents, right, I

said there are three types of people for these different friend zones, will the outer court,

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