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Growing Joy with Plants - Wellness Rooted in Nature, Houseplants, Gardening and Plant Care

What to Do When a Plant Dies with Cassidy from Succulents and Sunshine

Growing Joy with Plants - Wellness Rooted in Nature, Houseplants, Gardening and Plant Care

Maria Failla- Happy Plant Lady and Author of Growing Joy: The Plant Lover's Guide to Cultivating Happiness

Education, How To, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Home & Garden, Leisure

4.8883 Ratings

🗓️ 10 January 2023

⏱️ 67 minutes

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Summary

Are you a plant killer? It's a question that plagues many of us who have tried our hand at gardening, only to have our beloved plants wilt and die despite our best efforts. But fear not! In this episode, Cassidy Tuttle of Succulents and Sunshine explains that it's all a matter of understanding your plants and their specific needs. Come join us as we take a deeper look at how to deal with plant death.

In this episode, we learn:

  • [00:00] Does being a plant parent mean you’re also a plant killer?
  • [05:24] Who is Cassidy and how she became the plant parent she is today
  • [06:00] What is Succulents and Sunshine about?
  • [10:55] Cassidy's take on how plant parents handle plant death
  • [12:45] Trying to keep an echeveria succulent alive
  • [14:36] When to toss vs. treat your plants [it's simple!]
  • [16:24] The importance of a plant care routine
  • [18:34] Why it’s important to know your plant number
  • [19:27] Emotional attachment to our plants [feat. Maria's lime tree story]
  • [22:20] Maria's experience with generational plant gifts
  • [25:45] What Cassidy learned from every plant failure
  • [25:52] Tip #1 Be more attentive to your plants
  • [26:18] Tip #2 Different plants require different care
  • [27:41] Tip #3 Don't be too hard on yourself; plants die in the wild too
  • [28:43] Where to get plant seeds that are guaranteed to last longer
  • [30:40] Get quality grow lights that will last and look stunning next to your plants
  • [32:31] Why most of the plants we have aren’t designed to live in our homes.
  • [34:39] Why Haworthia is most suitable as your indoor succulent
  • [36:37] Should you try to grow the same plant again or let it go completely?
  • [41:20] What are some ways to reduce your plant collection?
  • [44:13] Learning to let go of dying plants
  • [48:32] The mental cost of holding onto something that no longer serves you
  • [51:23] What are the two options when you kill a plant?


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Transcript

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0:00.0

If you are a plant parent, you are also likely a plant killer.

0:04.7

Although I call myself a plant killer turned happy plant lady, I actually don't love the term

0:09.7

plant killer because it insinuates that we did it on purpose. But we all know if you have

0:15.5

killed a plant that is so far from the truth. Having a plant dye under your care can be totally

0:21.5

soul crushing.

0:22.8

We bring this plant home, we spend a bunch of money on it,

0:25.4

we are full of hope that this plant is going to bring us joy,

0:28.2

make our homes look beautiful, and then,

0:30.6

due to what could be a myriad of circumstances, wrong environment, forgetting about it,

0:34.8

too much travel, or just not understanding how to care for it, the plant dies and we are filled

0:40.1

with shame.

0:41.4

I cannot tell you how many times I have been somewhere and when the person

0:46.3

I'm talking to finds out that I have a podcast about houseplants I immediately see

0:50.6

their face fall, their eyes dart away and they say well I need your show because I can't keep a plant alive if someone paid me

0:58.6

Yes, they mean this as a joke, but there is an underlying pain there a failure that they feel

1:04.2

silly about we all know this feeling right but the plant community likes to be

1:09.2

focused on sometimes seemingly impossible standards of plant perfection

1:13.6

instead of the realities of hey plants die

1:16.7

hey plants have brown leaves you win some you lose some right this is a hobby we're

1:21.4

not all experts but guess what even if your plants have died in your care, you are still worthy and there's no need to carry shame about it.

1:30.0

So today we dive deep into all the feels about plant death how to deal with it

1:35.5

tools and strategies for moving on. So welcome and let's grow some joy shall we

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