Hey, we're Annen Jennifer Smith with Marriage After God.

Helping you call today an extraordinary marriage.

And today we're going to talk about what to do after a fight.

So this week's episode was inspired by a question we received on Instagram by someone,

and it was triggered by another episode we did where we talked about bickering.

And we talked about, it was a funny episode, it was about how to bicker, but it was actually

about how to not to bicker. But someone said, what do you do once you've already had the big fight?

Like not just bickering, but like we had a blow up fight. Like how do we mend that?

How do we get back into right relationship with each other?

They specifically asked for some action steps too.

Yeah, so what we thought we'd do, even though we just talked about bickering, we thought it makes

sense to say, why don't we give them some action items, some biblical concepts on how to respond

to your spouse, how to mend your relationship after the big fight. And so that's what this episode

is going to be about. So before we jump into today's kind of messed core message, I just want to

encourage those listening that when you are husband and wife chasing after God, chasing after his

will for your life, we have a real enemy, we have flesh, we have these things that come against

us circumstances, you know, just a bunch of things. And so I just want to be real and honest that

fighting happens, arguments happen, some people call them conversations, heart conversations.

But there's times that we just don't operate in the unity that God desires us to walk in just for

an example right before starting this episode. We had a little disagreement. It was hard to get

a hard conversation. It was a hard conversation. And I'm just being honest because I think that

it's important for husbands and wives to know that these things are going to come up. They're going

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