Welcome back, my homie, to part two of this freaking incredible episode with my dude, Devon Franklin,

who is teaching us how to navigate the scary freaking world of modern dating while staying actually true to ourselves and our core beliefs.

It is hard, but he's got so many juicy tips to share with us today.

And we're here to remind you that if you're struggling

right now, you're not alone and we are here to help. Now, if you're trying to figure out if your

current bow is actually the forever bow, then stay tuned because this episode is so freaking

packed with tips that you can actually take and use. Now if you haven't listened to

part one yet, stop what you're doing right now. Go back and start with that episode right before

you listen to this. Trust me when I say it's going to be so worth it for you to learn from the

very beginning. I love this episode so much with him that I didn't want to stop recording. There was

so much to learn that you better freaking believe I'm going to ask him to come back for another

round because there's so many nuggets that he shared and so many that he can keep sharing.

So without further ado, here is part two to my inspiring, freaking awesome, mind-blown conversation with Devon Franklin. I think it's more powerful as well, to your point, like for me, if I point the finger at somebody else, I can't do anything about it. Right. Like now it makes me go back to what I was saying earlier about, but it makes me feel powerless. Totally. But the second I can go, oh, like, I love using this language and I totally get that other

people down, but I'm like, oh, Lisa, it's all your fault. Now, look, I'm not saying, I want a caveat. If it's cheating, infidelity, like, I want to put that aside. Sure, sure, sure. But at least for me, like if there's a health problem,

or Lisa, it's all your fault.

If there's something wrong,

and even my relationship with my husband,

where let's say we can't see eye to eye, I'm like, well, I can't force him to see it my way.

So how can I take ownership?

How am I thinking about this?

And then what are the things that maybe I need to pivot or look at?

Because if I just think that I'm perfect, then again, it doesn't solve any issues.

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