What resilience is NOT. A reframe on toughing it out.

WITH LOVE, DANIELLE

Danielle LaPorte

Self-improvement, Education

4.9 • 697 Ratings

🗓️ 5 September 2022

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

What do you think of when you consider “being resilient”?

Hold that thought.

Resilience has everything to do with heart intelligence. You can’t ADAPT TO THE PRESENT unless you are connected to your own capacity to Love. You can’t create a better future if you can’t accept the present. I know it may seem counterintuitive but nothing changes until we get up close and accept it for what it is, for what it’s trying to teach us.

Enough with the tough. It’s killing us. YES resilience. And resilience has zero to do with sucking it up and getting more steely or aggressive.

You ready for a reframe? I hope so. Because if I can further this concept, I’ll die happy.

This episode of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is to the point and, hopefully, liberating.

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0:00.0	So it turns out that the path to being more loving is through a loving process itself.
0:10.6	I have some suggestions for you.
0:12.9	Hopefully my highs and my lows can flatten your learning curve.
0:16.7	I'm Danielle Laporte and this is with love, Danielle.
0:24.1	Hello, my loves. Today we are going to talk about resilience.
0:28.4	I think resilience is the tool that everybody needs to have in their kit to navigate through all the upheaval and just not just getting through it
0:39.0	because I'm going to talk about going beyond getting through it, but resilience to evolve,
0:45.8	to expand, to rise above, to be the antidote, to have everything exceed the wishes,
0:52.0	demands, and goals of our small self and move into that space where we're
0:56.3	really visioning our lives for ourselves and for each other from our higher self. So let's talk
1:03.4	about what resilience is not. And by the way, in my book How to Be Loving, we go through seven
1:10.4	virtues. So the book is like a sandwich and the
1:13.6	tofu in the middle. I don't know why I said tofu because I don't even like tofu. I don't
1:18.3	understand tofu. But meat isn't the tomato, the avocado, that's what it is. Okay, so the avocado
1:26.7	in how to be loving with some vegan mayo and mustard is the seven virtues.
1:33.8	So we look at the definitions, the characteristics, the expressions of divine love, compassion, forgiving, wisdom, resilience, and radiance.
1:48.6	And of course, you can get How to Be Loving now, pre-order from wherever you love to buy books,
1:53.5	or you can go to Danielle Laporte.com slash how to be loving.
1:58.7	And there's all sorts of beautiful bonuses.
2:02.4	There's a whole class that I'm going to be doing called Open Your Heart, Uncondition Your Mind. And also part of the pre-order
2:08.3	Gifty Palooza is I will be dropping into your inbox, if you so choose, every Sunday for a
2:16.2	year with an audiogram, just about, you know, two minutes of
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