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What it's like to find your birth parent | Am I Normal? with Mona Chalabi

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🗓️ 25 December 2023

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

In Britain, one-fourth of people who were adopted make contact with their birth parents before they turn 18. In this episode of Am I Normal? with Mona Chalabi, another podcast from the TED Audio Collective, guest host Saleem Reshamwala meets Amanda, a Dominican woman who was adopted by a white couple in Connecticut. Amanda always knew she was adopted, and was curious about her birth parents. After a few years of dead ends, she finally finds her biological mother ... in the last place she expected. You can listen to more Am I Normal? with Mona Chalabi wherever you get your podcasts.

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0:00.0

Ted Audio Collective.

0:02.0

Audio Collective.

0:04.0

Hey Ted Talks daily listeners,

0:11.0

Elise Hugh here.

0:12.0

Thank you so much for listening to our show

0:13.4

over the course of this year. Today we're doing something a little

0:16.7

different or sharing one of our favorite episodes of the year from Am I Normal,

0:21.6

another podcast in the TED Audio Collective.

0:24.4

We hope you enjoy it, and if you like what you hear,

0:26.5

you can listen to more Am I Normal,

0:28.6

wherever you get your podcasts. So Salin, this might sound kind of random, but I have been thinking about adoption ever since I found out that about 2% of all people under the age of 18 in the US have been adopted.

0:50.0

That is one out of every 50 kids.

0:52.8

Huh, that's a larger number than I would have guessed.

0:56.0

Yeah, one of the reasons why that might be a higher number than a lot of people would expect

1:01.2

is because many people don't necessarily have the identity of being an

1:05.1

adult tea, right? They might just feel like my parents are the people that raise me. Why do I need to go around explaining

1:10.8

biology to a bunch of strangers. So maybe we as a society continually

1:16.0

underestimate that figure. It feels like even in that category there's got to be so many

1:22.0

different subcategories with their own stories too.

1:25.6

Yeah, roughly 1.8 million stories and that's if you just count the children right

1:31.2

It's worth telling these stories for no other reason

1:34.1

and the fact that this is a really common experience.

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