What Is Reactive Abuse and How Do Narcissists Use It Against You
The Narcissists' Code
Lee Hammock
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🗓️ 11 June 2025
⏱️ 14 minutes
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What really Is Reactive Abuse and How Do Narcissists Use It Against You? Narcissistic people like to push your buttons in any way possible, then when you react, you look like the bad guy. That's what reactive abuse is, it's you snapping due to what they put you through, then they play the victim.
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| 0:00.0 | So what is reactive abuse and how do narcissists and toxic people use it to their advantage against the victims of narcissistic abuse against their partners or parents or friends or whoever it is that they're dealing with in their life? What is this phenomenon known as reactive abuse? That's what we're talking about today y'all. |
| 0:21.6 | If you knew here, my name is Lee Hammack. |
| 0:22.6 | I'm a diagnosed narcissist. |
| 0:23.6 | Here to give you the perspective of a narcissist. |
| 0:26.6 | And just open your mind up to how narcissists think and act and behave and all of the other good stuff, right? |
| 0:31.6 | So, if you go on Google, if you get on the Google, the old Google, it's worth the Google, you will see the |
| 0:39.4 | reactive abuse is, it happens when a victim of abuse, notice I, notice what I said, a victim |
| 0:45.9 | of abuse reacts to the abuse in a way which could include physical violence and or shouting at their victim. The victim of abuse |
| 0:58.7 | reacts in a way that could look abusive. It's reactive abuse. You are reacting to something. |
| 1:07.8 | You're not the abuser. You're going to, hey, I tell it to people all the time. |
| 1:12.1 | When you're having an episode of reactive abuse or an incident of reactive abuse, whatever name y'all want to use, |
| 1:17.7 | um, you're going to look like the abuser sometimes, right? You're going to look like the abuser. |
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| 2:03.6 | Tea break. |
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