What Is a "Good Mother?" Lara Bazelon on Female Ambition, Biological Realities and Going To Trial
The Unspeakeasy With Meghan Daum
Meghan Daum
4.7 • 855 Ratings
🗓️ 25 October 2021
⏱️ 91 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | I had a case and there was a trial. It was a short trial, but it was very, very important. |
| 0:08.7 | And the other side had just gotten new lawyers and they didn't really understand the case at all. |
| 0:14.9 | And so we had a conference with the judge and he suggested some trial dates. |
| 0:19.8 | And I picked the one that was early. |
| 0:22.4 | I picked the one that was on May the 17th because I knew they weren't ready. |
| 0:26.6 | And I insisted on it. |
| 0:27.7 | I wouldn't move off of that position. |
| 0:30.0 | And the case was far away. |
| 0:31.4 | So afterwards, I called my ex-husband to arrange the custody because normally I would have |
| 0:36.3 | had custody that day. |
| 0:38.0 | And I said, |
| 0:42.6 | you know, I have to leave on May the 16th to go up there. So can we please trade days? And there was just silence on the other end of the phone. And normally he doesn't give me a hard time. And I said, |
| 0:47.8 | what's the problem? And he said, what's May 16th? And I was looking in my calendar and I said, it's a Wednesday. And he said, |
| 0:56.1 | it's our daughter's birthday. And I was so consumed with getting this date and trying this |
| 1:02.3 | case that it literally, I had forgotten. Right. It didn't occur to me. And then when he said that, |
| 1:09.2 | I felt sort of flooded with shame and guilt. |
| 1:13.9 | And then he said, well, just go back and change the date. |
| 1:17.7 | And I said, no, I'm not going to change the date because my client has one chance. |
| 1:22.7 | And this is his best chance to win. |
| 1:24.6 | And I can't, I can't give up that date. |
| 1:27.3 | And I didn't. I went. We won. |
| 1:34.1 | Welcome to the unspeakable podcast. I'm your host, Megan Down. My guest is Laura Bazelon. |
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