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The Daily Dad

What if You Treated Everyone This Way?

The Daily Dad

Daily Dad

Society & Culture, Parenting, Kids & Family, Fatherhood, Ryan Holiday, Self-improvement, Wisdom, Relationships, Dads, Education

4.6630 Ratings

🗓️ 21 May 2021

⏱️ 2 minutes

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Summary

“You know that your kids are monsters when they’re tired. You know they don’t make good decisions when they’re hungry. You know that they have emotions and urges and drives operating inside them that they don’t understand. Hormones, ignorance, fear, energy they can’t control.”

Ryan explains why we should treat everyone with the same level of respect, on today’s Daily Dad podcast.

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Daily Dad podcast where we provide one lesson every day to help you with your

0:14.1

most important job being a dad. These are lessons inspired by ancient philosophy, by practical

0:20.3

wisdom, and insights from dads all over the world.

0:24.5

Thank you for listening, and we hope this helps.

0:33.3

What if you treated everyone this way?

0:36.3

You know that your kids are monsters when they're tired.

0:39.5

You know they don't make good decisions when they're hungry. You know they have emotions and urges

0:44.0

and drives operating inside them that they don't understand. Hormones, ignorance, fear, energy,

0:49.9

they can't control. So whenever they do something, your first thought is not, I am so pissed,

0:55.0

it's, how can I solve this? You have empathy and compassion for them so you don't take what they do

1:00.0

personally. You see past the mood and the tone and you look at what's really there. You investigate,

1:05.8

you guide, you forgive. Well, here's a question. What if you gave more people this treatment? What if you

1:12.5

jumped to conclusions less? What if you investigated more? What if you took fewer things personally?

1:17.7

What if you helped instead of writing off? What if you felt pity instead of anger? The answer is that

1:23.6

they would be happier, you would be happier, and the world would be a better place.

1:31.8

We are all struggling with something, often like children, we're struggling with things we don't understand. So let's give each other the benefit of the doubt. Let's solve each other's problems.

1:37.4

Let's be patient and kind.

1:40.6

Hey, thanks for listening to the Daily Dad podcast. You can get this via email every day as well at

1:46.0

Daily Dad.com. Please leave us a review in iTunes. Most importantly, if you know any dads or parents

1:52.9

who would benefit from these messages, please spread the word. Thanks.

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