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🗓️ 1 April 2024
⏱️ 13 minutes
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In this episode, we're talking about the trap of perpetual aspiration and the liberating power of accepting that some dreams are meant to remain just that—dreams. We explore the profound understanding that we're not meant to pursue every single dream we conjure up, and the real issue isn’t that we’re not achieving these dreams; it’s that we’re perpetually beating ourselves up for not chasing them.
We delve into the concept of radical acceptance and how it can lead to true transformation. We discuss the importance of letting go—not as an act of surrender but as an act of self-love and self-forgiveness. We also look at how the process of letting go can unlock potential and create space for new opportunities to arise—opportunities that fit who we are now, not who we thought we’d be.
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0:00.0 | So I'm going to riff a little bit in today's micro show. |
0:07.4 | I've been thinking there's the world out there, right, is one that's constantly nudging us towards the next big thing. |
0:13.4 | It's so easy to get caught up in this web of dreams that we tell ourselves we'll chase someday. |
0:18.7 | But then you juxtapose that with the idea that |
0:21.0 | someday never comes, right? Not in the sense of procrastination or the failure to achieve our dreams, |
0:27.7 | but mostly in the realization that perhaps, this is crazy for me to say this, I realize, |
0:33.2 | but some dreams are just meant to remain dreams, right? And maybe those dreams are in a different state |
0:39.9 | that are in a percolating state such that it's not yet time to take action on them. This is the |
0:46.3 | trap of perpetual aspiration. Now, this is not about giving up on aspirations or not about settling |
0:52.6 | for any less than you deserve. |
0:55.6 | But this is about, I don't want to dare call this profound, but it's about the understanding |
1:00.9 | and acceptance that maybe we're not always meant to be pursuing every single dream that we |
1:07.6 | conjure up, right? |
1:08.6 | That can actually leave us with a feeling of less than |
1:11.7 | and a gap at tune where we are, where we want to be and it can, you know, those voices of self-judgment |
1:16.5 | can come in, that maybe it's the fact that the real issue isn't that we're not achieving those |
1:21.1 | dreams, it's that we're actually beating ourselves up for the process of not jumping onto |
1:27.0 | them. It's sort of like a specter in the back of not jumping onto them. |
1:28.3 | It's sort of like a specter in the back of our minds haunting us. |
1:32.3 | All these what ifs, all these could be, you know, whether you're wishing to be 25 pounds |
1:37.7 | lighter or dreaming of being, you know, some dramatic career transformation that we find |
1:43.2 | difficult to commit to. We attempt, we falter, |
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