What happens WHEN YOU GO BACK to a narcissist?
The Narcissists' Code
Lee Hammock
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🗓️ 2 September 2024
⏱️ 14 minutes
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What happens to you IF YOU GO BACK to a narcissist that you left before? IT TYPICALLY GETS WORSE! When you go back to a narcissist they start to treat you badly and feel vindicated in everything that you have done to them. You might also feel bad about yourself and start to go into shame and depression.
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| 0:00.0 | What is going on beautiful people today? We're going to be talking about what happens if you go back to a narcissist? |
| 0:08.0 | What happens to you and what goes on inside the mind of a narcissism if and when you go back to them. If you're new here, my name is Lee Hammack. I'm a self-awyer narcissist |
| 0:16.6 | and welcome to another episode of the narcissist code. Oh, So boom, welcome back, welcome back, folks. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, y'all. Narcissist, what happens if you go back? What happens if you take your |
| 0:44.7 | happy ass back to the toxicity? What happens with? What goes on? So before it happens to |
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| 1:01.8 | But yes, what happens when you go back to a narcissist? |
| 1:05.0 | Like, first of all, narcissistic people |
| 1:08.0 | are always looking for ways to avoid shame, |
| 1:11.0 | to get rid of the shame that they feel for whatever they have done to you to make you leave right? |
| 1:16.9 | When you go back to a narcissist in their minds the shame is like you are vacuuming up the shame and taking it away |
| 1:26.4 | because if you come back to me it's clearing me up it's validating that I was right in my behaviors or or that my behaviors were not as bad as you made them out to be |
| 1:40.8 | Because you made my behaviors all bad not me not I is like you made my |
| 1:45.9 | behavior to be worse than they were because think about it right here if my |
| 1:50.0 | behaviors are so bad then why did you come back so the fact that you've came back |
| 1:55.1 | to me this shows me that my behaviors are not as bad as you made them out to be so |
| 2:00.8 | thank you very much that's the mind of a narcissist right there. That's what happens when you go back. That's why a lot of times when you go back, it might be good at first, but then it gets worse. Then it gets worse because now they feel like they can do whatever they want to do. |
| 2:16.0 | Now they feel like they have a new baseline of the relationship. |
| 2:19.0 | Now they feel like they can do and say whatever they want to do and say because they feel a certain type of way about it right they feel like this is how it goes like okay oh yeah like you |
| 2:29.2 | forgave me you came back so I'm not as bad as I thought I was. Thank you for |
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