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Thanks For Asking

What Happened to You? (Part 3)

Thanks For Asking

Feelings & Co.

Society & Culture, Mental Health, Personal Journals, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 13.5K Ratings

🗓️ 19 November 2019

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

In case you didn't know, we're still making episodes that are available exclusively on Nora's Substack! - In our third and final episode in our series on childhood trauma, we take a look at the bigger picture — as in, what the heck are we supposed to do with the knowledge that what happened to us as kids can affect our health in adulthood? How can we help heal our own childhood traumas? Buckle up, folks, because this train makes stops in Rantville, Can You Believe This Burg and OMGtown. This episode was produced in partnership with: Call to Mind, American Public Media's initiative to foster new conversations about mental health; St. David's Center for Child and Family Development, which is building relationships that nurture the development of every child and family; with support from the Sauer Family Foundation, which is committed to improving the lives of disadvantaged children and their families in Minnesota. Nora also writes sad & funny books! You can buy them here. You can catch up with TTFA on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook using @ttfapodcast. Nora's Instagram is @noraborealis. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

I have a podcast suggestion for you. It's called a slight change of plans. It is hosted

0:07.0

by my friend, the behavioral scientist Maya Shankar, who's named the best show of the

0:12.1

year by Apple in 2021, and it features the personal stories of people whose lives have

0:17.6

been upended by a big change. Surviving disaster, heartbreak, loss, and more. And also,

0:25.8

conversations with scientists about how even small changes can make a big difference in

0:30.0

our brains and our lives. I have also been on it. My episode was called When Surviving

0:36.2

Is Enough. We also dropped it in this feed so you might have heard this show and I beg

0:40.8

you already like it. There are new season features, conversations about the science of

0:45.0

things like meditation and self-compassion and stories about navigating grief, living

0:50.2

on borrow time after a terminal diagnosis and learning to argue better. You can find a

0:56.2

slight change of plans wherever you get podcasts.

1:01.2

Do you want to stop feeling guilty that life hasn't turned out like you thought it should?

1:06.4

My name is Kate Boller and when I was 35, my life came apart unexpectedly. I was diagnosed

1:13.3

with stage 4 cancer. I was a new mom, a professor, and imagined I had finally gotten the life

1:19.7

I wanted. Since then, I've heard from thousands of people who want a better language and a

1:26.8

spiritual community when we need each other most. Listen to everything happens wherever

1:34.2

you get your podcasts.

1:39.2

I'm Nora McNeerney and this is Terrible Thanks for Asking.

1:47.4

For the past two episodes, we've been talking adverse childhood experiences or aces. If

1:53.4

you haven't heard those episodes, we recommend that you go back and listen to them. They're

1:57.2

episodes 85 and 86. They tell a personal story about a woman named Brit and her childhood

2:03.6

framed by a study called aces. The study is powered by the aces survey, which are 10 questions

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