A lot of the things that are wrong with the world, we can't fix by ourselves.

As much as we'd like to see peace brought to troubled areas, corrupt governments reformed,

cancers cured, there's a limited amount that any of us as individuals can do about such

things.

However, there is one thing that nearly all of us can do that will immediately and exponentially

increase goodness and happiness on earth.

Children's and all other adults should reserve their highest praise of children for when

their children do kind acts.

That is not the case at present.

As a rule, children receive their highest compliments for one of four things.

They're intellectual and academic achievements.

My son, Sean, is brilliant.

His teacher says he's the best student she's had in years.

Their athletic abilities, their artistic attainments, and in the case of girls, their looks.

Children who receive their parents and other adults' compliments in these areas are delighted.

Everyone loves compliments.

But what about the child who doesn't excel at academics who isn't the gifted athlete

or dancer, the girl who is not particularly pretty, about what will their parents praise

them?

Most flattering remarks such a child is likely to hear their parents tell others, will

be something like, but he or she is a really good kid.

In which it can generally be inferred that being a good kid is not a big deal.

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