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We Met At Acme

What Comes Up When Interracial Dating, Jobs In Your Early 20s, And Training Men For Other Women ft. Baylie Robinson

We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.22.4K Ratings

🗓️ 14 June 2020

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I virtually sit down with published author and blogger Baylie Robinson. Baylie and I discuss the “no-contact rule,” the difference between dating a Black woman and a White woman, interracial relationships, what we need in our friendships, how to become self aware without therapy, how to talk to your Black friends, training guys to date other women, stories of us getting fired, and more! The episode starts with a solo where I discuss how mental health issues affect relationships, PTSD from toxic exes, discussing BLM with your partner, people who aren’t posting on social, and more.

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0:00.0

The following podcast is a deer media production.

0:06.3

Hey guys, welcome back to We Met It Act Me. I'm so excited about this episode today with

0:10.8

Bailey Robinson. She was so wonderful to talk to and had so much wisdom to share with you guys.

0:18.6

So I'm really excited for you to listen to it. Before we get into it, I just want to answer a

0:24.2

few of your questions that you had written in on Instagram. Someone said, I'm dealing with mental

0:31.6

health issues. Do you have any suggestions? Well, first of all, you're not alone. I think that

0:38.5

with everything going on in the world, it's shocking if someone isn't dealing with mental health

0:43.6

issues right now. And it's really, you know, it's something that we're all going through. And I think

0:49.1

that there's tons of resources. There are now therapy apps. There are so many therapists that

0:56.2

are seeing clients virtually that take your insurance, you know, talk to your friends, like use

1:02.8

the resources around you. You don't have to be depressed and having anxiety and feel like

1:09.9

your mental health is suffering alone. Like truly, truly, I mean, reach out to me. Send me a DM if

1:15.3

you're not feeling well. And we'll talk about it. But there are so many resources at your

1:20.1

disposal. I promise you, you know, and like someone asked, please talk about how your own depression

1:28.2

or anxiety can bleed into a relationship. Well, it definitely can. You know, I dated someone who

1:33.5

was really unhappy in their job and their career. And therefore, depressed and it affected our

1:39.4

relationship in so many ways. We're in having sex. It was just, you know, not good energy. And

1:47.3

the reason that it affected the relationship was because this person didn't do the work on themselves

1:53.1

and didn't want to look within them and think, you know, I have some healing to do. And I think

1:59.8

that's what's so important. It's like you say, don't get into a relationship unless like you're

2:05.0

in a great place like you have to be great. Like you have to love yourself in order to love someone

2:11.2

else. That's not necessarily true. You do have to do work on yourself in order to be in a successful

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