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Ten Minute Bible Talks Devotional Bible Study

What Causes a Dysfunctional Family Legacy | David in 22 | 2 Samuel 13

Ten Minute Bible Talks Devotional Bible Study

Ten Minute Bible Talks

Spirituality, Christianity, Mental Health, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness

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🗓️ 16 December 2019

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

You know the sad thing? Dysfunction seems to be the norm in most families. I mean, most of us, when we were kids, we made vows: "Oh, I'm not going be like my parents. Oh, I'll do things differently" Dysfunctional families are everywhere. Everyone has some sort of family dysfunction. No one believes the cover images of perfect, smiling families. There's always something going on in the background, even if we can't see it and don't know what it is. What causes a dysfunctional family legacy? Where does it all start? And how do we function with the dysfunction? Find out from https://www.thecrossingchurch.com/staff/patrick-miller/ (Patrick) as he digs into https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2+Samuel+13&version=NIV (2 Samuel 13) to continue our series on https://www.thecrossingchurch.com/podcast-series/david-in-22-stories/ (David in 22). In this episode, we discuss the outcome of David's sins. Listen to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-consequence-of-confronting-god-david-in-22-2-samuel-11/id1477778533?i=1000459095422 (The Consequence of Confronting God) for more context. To learn more, visit our https://www.thecrossingchurch.com/ (website) and follow us on https://www.facebook.com/TheCrossingCOMO (Facebook), https://www.facebook.com/TheCrossingCOMO (Instagram), and https://twitter.com/thecrossingcomo (Twitter) @TheCrossingCOMO.  Your support makes TMBT possible. Ten Minute Bible Talks is a crowd-funded project. Join the TMBTeam to reach more people with the Bible. Give now.

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0:00.0

Welcome to 10 minute Bible Talks, where we connect the Bible to your life and the time it takes to get to work.

0:11.5

I'm Patrick Miller. And I'm Keith Simon. Right now we're working through the story of David's life found in first and second Samuel.

0:19.0

Well, I'm glad that you're sticking with us. If you haven't figured it out already, the latter half of David's life is dark.

0:26.4

And that means honestly that these episodes are living under a shadow. But I think it's a shadow we all need to live under for a little bit. It's the

0:35.8

shadow of human rebellion against God. Today's story takes us away from David to instead focus on his children.

0:43.8

And any parent can tell you this.

0:45.7

A child's story is always interconnected to our own.

0:49.6

And so any true biography out there of any parent is going to talk about their children.

0:54.8

Second Samuel is no exception but the story it tells about David's children it's an ever

1:00.9

escalating tragedy it just keeps getting worse and worse and worse.

1:05.0

Why? Well, it's because David's two sons, Amnon and Absalon, they catch the contagion of David's sin. They catch the contagion of the sin that

1:15.8

David committed against Bathsheba and Uriah, lust and murder. We read in 2nd Samuel 13, this happened sometime afterward.

1:26.6

Absalon, son of David, had a beautiful sister named Tamar and Amnon, son of

1:31.5

David, became infatuated with her.

1:34.0

Amnon was so distraught because of his half-sister Tamar that he became sick,

1:39.0

for she was a virgin and it seemed impossible to am not to do anything about it. This story is a story of untethered

1:48.7

lust. It's not entirely untethered though. It's almost untethered because Amnon is the crown prince and so his lust always comes tethered to power and so Amnon he hatches a plot to get Tamar alone. He pretends to be sick and then he asks for his sister to attend to him.

2:07.0

We continue reading in second Samuel.

2:10.0

So Tamar went to the house of her brother Amnon, who was lying down.

2:14.1

She took some dough, kneaded it, and made the bread, and put it in his sight and baked it.

2:19.2

Then she took the pan and served him the bread, but he refused to eat.

2:23.0

Send everyone out of here, Amnon said, so everyone left.

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