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What Cancer Taught Me

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Come Curious

Sexuality, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.7783 Ratings

🗓️ 30 October 2025

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

This week Florence sits down with Harley Dee - friend and inspiration - to talk about life, loss, and learning to love your body after breast cancer. Harley opens up about treatment, scars, and the emotional rollercoaster of facing chemical menopause in her 30s. Together, they explore everything from hair loss to egg-freezing, and rediscovering pleasure when your body doesn’t feel like it used to. It’s a raw, truthful and deeply important conversation about survival, self-love, and what cancer really teaches you about being alive. Get to know Harley on IG @theharleylama Rate & Review if this pod’s ever made you think, feel or be less alone - and support the show for extra juicy chats on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious - listen and watch AD-FREE! Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious • @florencebark • @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Oh my God. You're listening to Come Curious. What Cancer taught me.

0:15.3

Hello and welcome Curious Fuckers to another solo episode with me, Florence. It's so lovely to be in your

0:23.5

ears today. I have a very interesting episode today, something that I have been talking to my

0:32.0

friend Harley about doing for a while. We've had various different conversations around her journey with breast cancer

0:39.9

and the things that it's affected with her body that we just had no idea it was going to

0:47.2

affect from chemical menopause to hair loss to the way that she feels about her body, to IVF treatment

0:59.0

before the cancer and the chemo, and then also freezing embryos and how that all works when

1:06.0

you're on a hormonal chemical menopause, because basically they put you on a chemical menopause to take

1:14.4

the estrogen out of your body and the hormones out of your body because that's what's feeding

1:18.0

the cancer so how does that all work how can you be a mother within the realms of cancer

1:26.3

how do you protect your eggs, and how do you navigate the journey

1:34.8

with your body and healing and what is it actually like to go through breast cancer?

1:43.6

Harley shared a crazy stat with me that is one in four people

1:47.8

get cancer these days and it's happening more and more in young people. So I do think this

1:53.8

conversation is really, really important to have because I think cancer is going to be affecting

1:58.7

more people and ourselves more than we could ever

2:03.2

imagine. Because we never think that it will affect us. And then you get the phone call like I did

2:09.2

from Harley saying, I've got cancer and how the fuck are you supposed to deal with this? I think this

2:15.6

episode is for anyone who might go through

2:20.4

the journey of cancer, whether that's with a friend, a family member or yourself. It's extremely

2:27.8

important to know about these things and to know about the process and the journey and how it affects

2:35.2

somebody and also so you can kind of act right if someone that you know has cancer

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