Welcome to the Man Talks show. I'm Connor Beaton. And on this midweek mini episode, we're

to dive into the age old question of should you break up with her? So I'm making this very

gender specific because recently I've had a lot of men reaching out. And I usually get men

reaching out on a at least once or twice a week basis asking me what the grounds are for him to

break up with her and and so you can take this and insert whatever gender your partner is

insert whatever your relationship dynamic looks like and most of this is still going to apply to you

so here's i'm going to get to how to tell,

but the first thing that I just want to address is if you don't know whether or not you should be

with your partner, it says more about you than it says about them. What it tells me is that you haven't done the work to actually identify what it is that you're

looking for in a woman.

And unfortunately, this is how most of us date, right?

Most of men sort of take this approach of, it's the shotgun approach right like once you pull the trigger

you're just going out for numbers right you're looking for as the largest sample size possible

and that's okay for a little while right you can you can get into that modality of starting to

date but the problem is is that we we live

in a in a society maybe not in COVID right now but we live in a society where it is so easy

and accessible to get stuck in the process of just dating constantly endlessly relentlessly

without a single fucking clue about what you want. Not one,

not one clue about what you want. You might know the type of woman that you're attracted to or what

she looks like. You might know the things that you don't want, right? You probably don't want her to be verbally abusive or, you know, whatever the case may be.

But for the most part, men don't know what they're really looking for.

And I'll use this as an example.

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