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Yeah, so I have a spouse that we just got married maybe four or five months ago, and he's super financially irresponsible.

You're just finding that out, or you kind of knew it before?

I'm really kind of just finding it the

brevity of it out, how deeply rooted it is. What's that mean? Tell us what that looks like.

Well, here's a couple of examples. So he's behind on his child support because the job that he

had was the contract job.

And so they'll contract for a few months and then they'll leave without work for a few months.

Well, then he got another contract job and he got into a dispute with the guy there and ended up losing it.

So his child support is in like careers and he could even like if they found out, I guess he could go to jail. I don't know the process is for child support, not being paid on time.

But that's just like one thing.

So when it comes to like the money, when he gets paid, he wants to go get his hair done or me to get my hair done.

And I'm like, okay, we need to sacrifice this little bit of money so that we can actually take it and start paying off debts like he um also has a car

that's in his mom's name that's out for repossession and so he you know he dies to keep it

hidden so it doesn't get repossessed and like it's just like so how long did you guys date

before you were married four months ago

uh not very long at all we kind of met and then we just got married like a very short period

of time afterwards and how old are you too um i'm 41 he's 52 oh that makes it worse

like a story of two 20 year olds-olds. I know really it does.

Okay.

And you just, so it's like you didn't know all of this, and now that you're living together, it's starting to be revealed what's really going on.

Yeah.

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