"We Feel Like We're In The Wild West:" Parents of Gender-Questioning Kids Ask Their Own Questions
The Unspeakeasy With Meghan Daum
Meghan Daum
4.7 • 855 Ratings
🗓️ 6 October 2021
⏱️ 81 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | As far as I know, there are no studies that say that if you do not, that if we don't |
| 0:07.5 | start these kids immediately on hormones when they say they want them, that they're going |
| 0:11.5 | to commit suicide. |
| 0:13.2 | So that is misguided. |
| 0:16.2 | There are a lot of studies that show that these youth are at high risk of suicide, you know, and there's a lot |
| 0:22.9 | of studies that show that they're not understood. |
| 0:24.7 | And when they're not supported by their parents, that can lead to worse mental health outcomes. |
| 0:29.8 | But it's not always clear what support means. |
| 0:32.4 | Like, the support is not always operationalized as providing medical intervention. |
| 0:38.5 | You know, in fact, that's not, I don't know that it really ever is. |
| 0:40.6 | It's more just, you know, supporting the kid with their mental health, supporting them and like trying to understand their gender, you know, supporting them maybe in using the right name and pronouns that the kid's wanting. |
| 0:51.5 | But in terms of like needing to intervene medically to prevent |
| 0:56.2 | suicide and doing it quickly, I know of no studies that have shown that. So I have a real |
| 1:03.7 | problem with that also. Now, that being said, I will say that I have worked with young people |
| 1:09.5 | where I am very concerned about the risk of suicide |
| 1:13.4 | if we don't move more quickly. |
| 1:16.2 | And so there are some cases where, you know, but it's all individual. |
| 1:20.4 | You know, like if, you know, after a comprehensive assessment and all of that, you know, |
| 1:24.8 | if it seems like, you know, things are really going to go downhill |
| 1:28.5 | if we don't move forward, then that may end up being what we feel like we have to do. But |
| 1:34.3 | to do that, to make that kind of decision without an assessment to really understand all |
| 1:40.0 | the pieces, I think is problematic. |
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