Ways Narcissists Use Sex As A Weapon
Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs
Lisa A. Romano
4.8 • 805 Ratings
🗓️ 15 May 2020
⏱️ 20 minutes
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Summary
A narcissist, whether male or female will weaponize sex to dominate and control their partners or lovers. Sex is seen as an opportunity to have grandiosity, and superiority reflected back to them. When and if the narcissist feels the need to punish you, they may withdraw from the sexual relationship, start an argument and then blame you for not being obedient enough for them to have sex with you. This is a mature episode. Please be advised.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast. |
| 0:06.0 | My name is Lisa A. Romano. |
| 0:08.0 | I am a life coach, best-selling author, YouTube vlogger, meditation teacher, an expert in the field of codependency and narcissistic abuse. |
| 0:16.0 | I am a believer in the power of an organized mind. |
| 0:20.0 | My aim is to help people learn what it means to live above the veil of consciousness |
| 0:24.9 | rather than living a reactive life. |
| 0:28.3 | May your heart feel blessed, your mind feel expanded, and your spirit find hope |
| 0:32.8 | as you spend time with me here at the Breakdown to Breakthrough Podcast. |
| 0:37.5 | Today we're talking about narcissistic. as you spend time with me here at the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast. |
| 0:46.4 | Today we're talking about narcissism and sex and the way in which a narcissist perceives sex. |
| 0:48.6 | And it's important to understand because it can be so confusing when you first meet a narcissist to be love-bombed |
| 0:57.5 | and be swept up in such admiration and connection and then to suddenly feel or eventually |
| 1:06.4 | feel left out in the cold. So let's talk a little bit about what sex is to a narcissist. |
| 1:14.7 | Sex to a narcissist is not about intimacy. Intimacy is about trust and vulnerability. |
| 1:21.5 | It's about seeing me naked and raw and trusting that as I am, I can trust that you won't exploit me and that I am |
| 1:33.6 | pleasing to you and that together we can experience a pleasurable experience that is based on |
| 1:41.9 | mutual trust and respect. I have no fear that after laying naked with you and being so |
| 1:49.3 | vulnerable with you, that you will exploit me. Now, when we're dealing with the narcissist, |
| 1:55.5 | sex is not about intimacy or vulnerability. Sex is about admiration. It's about domination. It's about attention, |
| 2:06.6 | worship, and even competition. A narcissist wants to believe that you believe that they are the most |
| 2:16.2 | exciting, romantic, sexual partner you have ever had. |
| 2:22.8 | They'll ask you about your past lovers. |
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