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Code Switch

Was dating while Black always so hard?

Code Switch

NPR

Society & Culture

4.614.9K Ratings

🗓️ 11 February 2026

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

Dating can be tough. Dating while Black? That can feel nigh impossible sometimes, given how the long tentacles of racism have wrapped themselves around every aspect of our lives (and hearts.) But was dating any easier in the past? We're putting that question to the test on this special Valentine's Day episode of the pod. We revisit a conversation with audio storyteller and host of the podcast, Our Ancestors Were Messy, Nichole Hill. She takes us back in time to 1937, using archival personal ads from the Washington Afro-American to show us what it was like for Black folks to date almost a century ago.

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Like, for example, this one astronaut who went to the moon, you know what he's not into?

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Was it cool to float around weightless?

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0:18.6

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0:23.9

Hey, everyone, you're listening to Code Switch, the show about race and identity from NPR.

0:29.3

I'm B.A. Parker.

0:34.4

Well, Valentine's Day is coming up very soon, which is probably as good a time as any to remind you all that Code Switch is a team of hopeless romantics.

0:46.8

Despite our sometimes cynical, frosty exteriors, we love, love. Some of us are obsessed with rom-coms. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not

0:57.6

because it's not because it's New Year's Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to

1:01.5

spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.

1:06.8

Some of us are romance novel aficionados. I have now read literally hundreds.

1:13.9

And that's partly because of my personality, but it's partly when you become a romance fan.

1:19.9

The genre is such that people really dive deep into it.

1:23.5

There's a real emotional reward to the reading.

1:26.8

Some of us are just out here in the world,

1:29.7

rooting for love, Lauren's souls the world over,

1:32.8

to find each other.

1:34.5

I was gonna ask you,

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