Get it the virtue. This is just good time management here. Let's find out if the guy is cheating before you go out on your very first date with him

But not cheating on you

Cheating with you cheating. Yeah on somebody with you that you might not be aware of I love this idea actually hey Lane good morning

Hey, how's it going?

Tastic. All right, so tell us what got us to this point here who this dude is and why do you even have a hunch that he might be married?

Look, it's just it's a tap and too often and I'm just hyper aware of it

And so now like I'm trying not to be fixated on it

But I've seen it happen so many times and I mean I almost was part of it before if we someone else and so I'm like

I'm not doing that again. We have got like I'm not I'm not participating in that so yeah

Yeah, so do you want me to just like go over?

What happened or what do you mean you mean what got you to this point?

Yeah, please. Oh

Sure, okay, sorry

So I work at a restaurant and him and his co-workers come in I come in like the regulars

But like twice a month like I do see them and it's been several months and so this last go around

He doesn't live here in in town. He lives a little further out and

He he's like I'm taking you to dinner the next time I'm in town. I'm like, uh-huh sure. Okay, whatever so

Let this last Saturday he texted and he was like hey, I'm gonna be in town

I'd love to take you to dinner and I was like oh my gosh. He followed up. That's amazing

Um, and it's for Thursday. It's for tonight

But we were texting throughout the week and he never text at night

Like he never initiates at night. He never responds to text at night

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