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This Jungian Life Podcast

UNREQUITED LOVE: Can Eros be revived?

This Jungian Life Podcast

Joseph Lee, Deborah Stewart, Lisa Marchiano

Jungian, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Psychology, Dreams, Jung, Relationships, Selfhelp, Society & Culture, Psychoanalysis

4.81.7K Ratings

🗓️ 15 February 2024

⏱️ 72 minutes

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Summary

When we offer our heart and it is refused, even the gods become angry.

One day long, long ago, Aphrodite was a new mother. Her son, Eros, was the living symbol of her endless passion for his father, Aries. Despite her divine gifts, Eros failed to thrive. Desperate, she brought the goblet to the ancient mother, Themis, who knew the boy was dying at once. Aphrodite was instructed to bear a second child who, when presented to Eros, would cure him. Dutifully, she lay with Aries and begot a second son. She brought them close and was astonished to see her new son leap toward Eros, who met him in midair. In a tremendous exultant cry, they rolled and laughed—Eros grew strong. His brother was then named Anteros, whose name means 'Love Returned.'

Even the God of Love cannot survive without love's return. Are we so different?

The arrows of Eros strike our hearts, and we are filled with wild love. Psychotherapists call this limerence, that initial stage of love when all we ache for is found in one person. This projection can carry us into a new relationship with intrepid confidence for a time. If that love is unreturned, a second archetype, Anteros, is called forth to punish those who reject love. Armed with his lead club, he strikes the unloving and drives them to ruin.

From time immemorial, the human heart, once filled with passionate fantasy, if rejected, turns to vengeance.

Prepare to discover the intricacies of unrequited love and its psychological underpinnings; how unrequited love is illuminated through Jungian psychology; what constitutes unrequited love, including its symptoms, psychological impacts, and its potential for personal transformation; where this discourse positions itself within the realm of psychological study and mythological exploration; whether unrequited love serves a destructive or constructive purpose in one's life; which myths and psychological theories illuminate the experience and consequences of unrequited love; why unrequited love is pivotal, acting as a catalyst for deeper self-knowledge…and so much more…

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to this Jungian life.

0:03.0

Three good friends and Jungian analysts, Lisa Marciano, Deborah Stewart and Joseph Lee,

0:09.0

invite you to join them for an intimate and honest conversation that brings a psychological perspective to important issues of the day.

0:17.0

I'm Lisa Marciano and I'm a youngian analyst in Philadelphia.

0:22.0

I'm Joseph Lee and I'm a youngian analyst in Philadelphia. I'm Joseph Lee and I'm a youngian analyst in Virginia Beach, Virginia.

0:27.0

I'm Deborah Stewart, a youngian analyst on Cape Cod. God. Well, in honor of Valentine's Day, we thought we would focus on the topic of unrequited love, which was actually also a listener request, and why unrequited love on Valentine's Day?

0:50.0

Because we're a little bit morose like that. We're also going to be talking about a dream today at the end of the

0:56.4

episode from a 46 year old woman and the dream features transparent swan hatchlings. So if that image intrigues you, stay around for the dream.

1:08.9

So unrequited love, what can we say about this topic from a youngian perspective?

1:16.0

I know I have a lot, but...

1:19.0

Well I thought I might just jump in and toss a little bit in mythology in there because so much about Valentine's Day and Cupid and bows and arrows.

1:27.5

Yeah. I mean that all comes from Greco-Roman mythology.

1:31.5

Cupid is the Roman version of Eros and Eros is a little bit more of a

1:38.0

rich figure. So Venus and Arias have a long-standing very passionate love affair. They produce a number of

1:46.9

children. One of the children is called Eros, who we associate with romantic love and we're all familiar with that archetypal image of

1:56.7

Aros being a little child.

1:59.1

He draws this bow.

2:01.2

He lets it fly and it strikes the person in the heart and then they fall in love,

2:09.0

often with the next thing that they lay their eyes on much like a little baby duck so there's something about

2:15.6

imprinting I think that's going on there and then all kinds of hijinks ensue so this

2:21.5

this theme also shows up in a midsummer night's dream where the

2:26.3

ferries can make people fall in love with everybody inappropriate. But this idea

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