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ChooseFI | Financial Independence Podcast

Unraveling Your Relationship with Money | Shannah Game

ChooseFI | Financial Independence Podcast

Jonathan Mendonsa & Brad Barrett | Choose FI Media, Inc

Investing, Careers, Business

4.8 • 5.2K Ratings

🗓️ 23 June 2025

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

Most people think managing money is about spreadsheets and willpower—but what if your biggest financial obstacle is a story you've been telling yourself since childhood? Shannah Game, a certified financial planner and author of Unraveling Your Relationship with Money, reveals that personal finance is 90% psychology and emotion, not just numbers and logic. She explores how money trauma affects anyone—regardless of background—and how childhood experiences shape adult financial behaviors in ways most people never recognize. Key Topics Discussed The Emotional Side of Finance (00:01:35) Personal finance is 90% psychology and emotion. Shannah discusses her own journey and revelations about money. Understanding Money Trauma (00:06:48) Money trauma can affect anyone, not just those from impoverished backgrounds. Childhood experiences have a lasting impact on adult financial behaviors. Strategies for Intentional Spending (00:12:15) Implement the 24-hour rule before purchases to reduce impulsive spending. Create space between stimulus and response to make intentional financial choices. Creating Your Financial Rules (00:16:40) Set personal financial boundaries and make your own rules. Tailor financial strategies to individual needs rather than following one-size-fits-all advice. Personal Growth and Self-trust (00:36:17) Foster a growth mindset to combat feelings of being "bad with money." Build self-trust in financial decision-making. Key Insights "It's 90% psychology and emotion, not just numbers and logic." (00:01:15) "Money should not be a source of struggle; it should bring joy." (00:06:00) "Create space before spending to make conscious decisions." (00:10:07) "You have the power to set your own financial rules." (00:16:40) "Our brains can sabotage our financial well-being." (00:18:39) Practical Actions Apply a 24-hour cooling-off period before making purchases to minimize impulsive spending. (00:11:22) Use highlighters to categorize your spending and uncover hidden patterns affecting your financial decisions. (00:29:23) Reflect on spending patterns in a relaxed environment to identify emotional triggers. (00:29:23) Related Resources Unraveling Your Relationship with Money - Book Link (00:41:01) Follow Shannah Game: Website: EveryonesTalkingMoney.com Instagram: @ShannahGame

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to Choose a Phi. Today in the show, we have Shauna Game. She's a CFP and the host of the

0:05.6

Everyone's Talking Money podcast. She's the author of the new book, Unraveling Your Relationship

0:10.3

with Money, Ditch Your Money Trauma so you can live an abundant life. I think you're really going to get a lot out of

0:15.5

this episode. I know I did. I thoroughly enjoyed reading Shauna's book. And it dives into a lot of what we talk about

0:22.0

here at Choose a Pie, a lot of the stories, a lot of the scripts that have followed us in many

0:26.5

cases for decades. And really how to investigate them, how to think about them, how to unravel

0:32.0

them, how to move forward and take action and make your life better. This episode has a little bit

0:36.8

of everything. I think you're really going to enjoy it.

0:39.0

And with that, welcome to choose that fine.

0:48.7

Shana, welcome to choose that five.

0:50.7

I'm so happy to have you here.

0:52.1

Thanks for having me, Brad.

0:53.4

The honor is all mine. Well, I appreciate that. And yeah, the book isI. I'm so happy to have you here. Thanks for having me, Brad. The honor is all mine.

0:54.8

Well, I appreciate that. And yeah, the book is phenomenal. I really enjoyed reading it.

0:59.9

And I just love, I love the concept because relationship with money, right, unraveling your

1:05.6

relationship with money. It's so critical because I think, I think a lot of people think about

1:10.7

personal finance as numbers and

1:13.3

logic. And if you've been in the personal finance game for as long as we both have,

1:18.9

we know that it's probably five or 10 percent numbers and logic and 90 percent psychology

1:26.0

and emotion. So I think it's just a wonderful premise and starting

1:29.2

point for a really important book. So I'd love to hear what made you write this book.

1:35.6

It's such an interesting question because I've been in the, you know, quote unquote money expert

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