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Velvet's Edge with Kelly Henderson

Unpacking the Mystery of the Female Orgasm with Kim Anami (The Velvet)

Velvet's Edge with Kelly Henderson

iHeartPodcasts

Spirituality, Relationships, Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality

4.5927 Ratings

🗓️ 10 September 2025

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Why does the female orgasm still feel like one of life’s biggest mysteries—even in 2025? This week on Velvet’s Edge, Kelly is joined by board-certified sexologist and host of the Orgasmic Enlightenment podcast, Kim Anami. Known for her transformational retreats and global work around intimacy, Kim breaks down the myths, mental blocks, and cultural baggage that keep so many women from experiencing their full pleasure.

From the reasons society still struggles with good sex, to why women orgasm differently solo versus with a partner, to how menopause and aging shift intimacy—Kim shares her wealth of knowledge on reconnecting with your body and reclaiming your right to pleasure. You’ll hear practical tools for women who struggle to orgasm, advice for men who want to be better lovers, and the empowering truth that sex gets to be better at every stage of life.

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0:00.0

This is an I-Heart podcast.

0:15.5

Kim Anami is a board certified sexologist and host of the orgasmic enlightenment podcast.

0:22.4

She has propelled millions into higher stratospheres of connection, sensuality, energy,

0:27.3

and aliveness through her online sex and relationship school and intimacy retreats in Bali

0:32.9

and Mexico.

0:34.3

And she is here with us today to unpack the mystery of the female orgasm. Hi, Kim. Hi,

0:41.2

Kelly. I'm so glad you're here. I've been following you on Instagram for quite some time now and I feel

0:46.1

like the energy you bring to sex is how I want to live the rest of my life. And so I'm wanted to get

0:52.7

your insight and then also give it to all the

0:54.6

listeners because I find it to be very empowering and also hopeful when you're talking about sex.

1:00.4

I'm so glad to hear that. That's my purpose is to really show people what's possible. And for

1:07.1

everyone to know, it's possible for that. And you probably heard me speak about what I call the Anami guarantee, which is that everyone can.

1:15.6

So rather than people thinking, oh, I guess some people can do this or some people can have that kind of orgasm or some people just have a high libido.

1:23.4

Maybe I'm one of those people who doesn't.

1:25.2

No, I guarantee that everyone has all these things. Every

1:28.8

woman has a high libido. Every woman is multi-orgasmic, can have a G-spot, cervical, squirting orgasms,

1:35.9

ejaculate that hits the ceiling. Every woman can shoot ping pong balls with her vagina. These are not

1:42.1

just special skill sets that were granted to some and not to

1:47.1

others. If a woman isn't having these experiences, there's reasons why and there's things we can do

1:52.4

about it so that everyone can. I guarantee you my listeners are now going, oh, I see why she had her on.

1:59.6

I want to start with something I read on your website.

2:02.3

You say your main message is that everyone ought to be having more sex and better sex,

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