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Uncertain About Your Relationship? You Need This... - Matthew Hussey - #1057

Modern Wisdom

Chris Williamson

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.65.9K Ratings

🗓️ 9 February 2026

⏱️ 110 minutes

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Summary

Matthew Hussey is the world’s #1 dating coach, a YouTuber, public speaker and an author. How do you know if you’re with the right person — or if you're just telling yourself you are? If you’re questioning the relationship more than enjoying it, Matthew Hussey might have the clarity you need. So what does finding your person actually look like, and what signs should you pay attention to? Timestamps: (0:00) How to Know When a Relationship Is Over (12:23) Why You Should Stop Waiting to Leave (19:22) Why Chaos Feels Like Chemistry (26:29) 5 Questions To Ask Yourself About Your Relationship (32:08) When Relationships Make You Lose Yourself (40:24) You Shouldn’t Feel Shame for Your Emotions (53:12) Why Most Advice Doesn’t Actually Work (58:11) Realising You Are Already Enough (01:12:40) Why Being Truly Seen Feels So Threatening (01:22:06) The Strength of Vulnerability in Relationships (01:34:20) Is Compatibility the Biggest Problem in Dating? (01:48:58) What’s Next For Matthew? Sponsors: Get my free Valentine’s Review with 75 life-changing questions to ask your partner: ⁠⁠⁠https://chriswillx.com/valentines See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/deals⁠ New pricing since recording: Function is now just $365, plus get $25 off at https://functionhealth.com/modernwisdom Get a free bottle of D3K2, an AG1 Welcome Kit, and more when you first subscribe at https://ag1.info/modernwisdom Get a Free Sample Pack of LMNT’s most popular flavours with your first purchase at https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom Get 35% off your first subscription on the best supplements from Momentous at https://livemomentous.com/modernwisdom Extra Stuff: Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/books⁠ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: ⁠https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom⁠ Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠⁠⁠ #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠⁠⁠ #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberm - Get In Touch: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast⁠ Email: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/contact⁠ - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Valentine's Day is coming up and whether you want to more deeply connect with your partner or work out whether or not you should break up.

0:06.2

I've got the fix for you. I have put together a list of 50 of the most viral and science-backed ways to connect with your partner more deeply and 25 questions that will help you work out whether or not you should break up.

0:17.3

And they're all available right now at the Modern Wisdom Valentine's Review. And it is completely free. You can get it by going to chriswillex.com slash valentines.

0:24.6

That's chriswillx.com slash valentines.

0:28.8

One of the most common issues that I'm seeing online at the moment and people talk about a lot is

0:36.1

working out when to end things.

0:39.6

How do you come to think about advising people on knowing when to leave a relationship?

0:47.1

I coached, there's someone I was coaching recently who had given me all sorts of reasons why they should already

0:58.7

be gone.

1:00.6

And I sat in front of her and she was like, what do you think I should do?

1:07.3

And I was like, you've already given me so many reasons why you shouldn't

1:12.7

be there. But I can't make you leave. Like I sometimes think of, I think this is a, I don't

1:22.2

love this metaphor because I believe in renewal and sort of rebirth, but I sometimes think it helps to think of things

1:29.6

like a cliff edge. And at a certain point, you kind of go over the cliff edge and then you're in

1:37.7

free fall and there's like a lot of damage that gets done or maybe the cliff edges, you know, your life

1:42.9

blows up financially because you put off doing something sooner or maybe the cliff edges, your life blows up financially because you put off doing something

1:46.4

sooner or maybe the cliff edges that, you know, there's a certain amount of time that's passed

1:51.8

that you can never get back. But that idea of going off the cliff edge is, in some ways,

1:58.8

has been important to me because I see part of what I do is can I get someone

2:04.3

to act now can I almost even create a fake cliff edge now that stops them from getting to the

2:11.5

real cliff edge where there's going to be so much time past that they're now going to have deep

2:16.1

regret about having spent that long with

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