Type Two and Type Four in Relationship | Wednesday Q&A

Enneagram & Coffee

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Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Relationships, Business, Education, Entrepreneurship

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🗓️ 6 December 2023

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of the Enneagram and Coffee podcast, I provide advice to a Type 2 listener who is married to a Type 4. My suggestion is to set boundaries, prioritize personal needs, and avoid the urge to 'rescue' the other person in order to maintain a healthy relationship. I also emphasize the importance of self-reliance and resilience and advise against falling into despair or becoming overly dependent. I encourage the listener to appreciate the strengths in their relationship and to learn from each other's emotional skills. -- Thank you to this week’s podcast sponsor - Notion! Try Notion AI for free when you go to Notion.com/egram Apply to Coach With Me - https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdoIxLhSnCQxq3nHFN8v6KWKnI5YqZAqCkpramGg9v4F-2GAg/viewform Notion Templates here - www.sarajanecase.com/shop Enneagram Coffee here - https://www.summitcoffee.com/sarajanecasestore Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	This episode is brought to you by ITVX.
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0:27.7	freshest streaming service. I am Sarah Jane Case and this is Eniagram and coffee.
0:39.0	Hello everyone, happy Wednesday.
0:42.1	You know, I hope your day is treating you well. I hope the week is going
0:44.9	well so far. Thanks for joining me for another podcast episode for another Wednesday
0:51.2	Q&A. If you're new here, you can always call or text your
0:55.6	anyagram, creativity, self-care, personal growth questions into 828
1:01.4	3389-127 and I answer one every single Wednesday. The tank is a little low right now so if you have a question you should send it in because I'll get to it soon.
1:11.9	All of that being said, here is the question for today.
1:16.0	Hi, Sarah Jane, I am a two married to a four,
1:19.0	and I am hoping that you can give me some specific tips to help with our relationship.
1:24.4	We've been together for a very long time, but has rarely been happy or easy.
1:29.0	I love to find a place of balance where we can respect our different needs and not feel like we're doing a push pull.
1:34.6	Thank you so much for everything you do. Thank you. Thank you so much for setting your question in and I am so fascinated by the two-four dynamic.
1:44.1	It's actually like a pretty rare pairing in my experience,
1:48.6	just not coming across a lot.
1:51.0	I see a lot of twos and fives, but not a lot of twos and fours so that's very fun.
1:57.1	Here's the thing that can happen in that two four dynamic now two and four are two of the most
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