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The Other Partner is always triggered by the emotional stress or maybe there's some trauma they haven't healed yet or dealt with where they resist it or they just try to lie like how do you approach that conversation?

You have to talk about that outside of crisis.

You don't talk about it when something has gone off in the ditch.

You don't talk about issues and resentment while you're angry with each other.

Talk about it while things are common. Most people think, no, no, no, let sleeping dogs lie.

I don't want to bring up an issue when there isn't one. No, that's when you need to talk about it. That's when you need to say look, while we're getting along, let's make an agreement that if I do something that really gets on your nerves you will tell me and I promise to you that I will hear you out

and that's the time to talk about it. Don't try to solve problems during crisis.

Yes.

Make your plan outside of crisis.

We have agreed that our objective when we disagree is not to get the other person to agree with us, but to be heard.

In fact, you don't even need to respond. I'm going to tell you how I feel.

And you tell me how you feel,

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