Transference, Contraindication, and Sharing Art
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.6 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 4 April 2025
⏱️ 57 minutes
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This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.
00:00 What does the end of a good therapeutic relationship look like?
04:44 Does there have to be conflict for progress in therapy?
15:22 Do I have to meet an ex-client to receive their feedback?
22:05 Is couples therapy contraindicated?
27:35 Can you guide the client into terminating?
31:18 Is there an ethical obligation to meet with this client?
40:58 Is it OK for clients to share art with their therapist?
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April 4, 2025
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| 0:00.0 | So Bob, emails, what do you say? |
| 0:01.5 | Yeah. |
| 0:02.2 | Anonymous listener from Utah, she says, Dr. Kirk and Bob, I've listened to your podcast since 2019. |
| 0:10.7 | The episodes with Bob are always my favorites. |
| 0:13.6 | Thank you. |
| 0:14.1 | I have appreciated the educational information and inspiration of Bob's journey the most as it's inspiration of Bob's journey the most as it's |
| 0:24.4 | been so helpful in my healing experiences. |
| 0:27.9 | I myself have been in deep long-term therapy with the same therapist for approximately nine |
| 0:34.3 | years. |
| 0:35.0 | I started with somewhat of an disorganized attachment style with a lot of mistrust, |
| 0:40.1 | resistance, and avoidant behavior. |
| 0:43.0 | I also am the survivor of childhood sexual abuse. |
| 0:47.2 | I didn't realize the depth of my issues when I started therapy, however, and thought |
| 0:52.1 | I just was struggling with postpartum depression. |
| 0:55.0 | The journey has been intense, but absolutely life-changing. We have almost completely rewritten |
| 1:01.3 | my internal schemas, and I now experienced times of what I feel are earned secure attachment. |
| 1:07.7 | I have had to work through periods of avoidant and anxious attachment over the years. |
| 1:13.6 | My therapist is incredible. She primarily practices non-directive psychodynamic therapy from an |
| 1:18.8 | object relations perspective and is now in training to become an analyst. She has been incredibly |
| 1:25.0 | patient with me, willing to go at my pacing. |
| 1:28.0 | She is boundaryed, caring, skilled at what she does. |
| 1:31.3 | I know for a fact, I wouldn't be alive today if it weren't for our work together. |
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