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Dear Young Married Couple

TRADITIONS for Your Marriage and Family w/ Pastor Paul and Lori Elder

Dear Young Married Couple

Adam & Karissa King

Christianity, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8871 Ratings

🗓️ 11 February 2020

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

You’ll hear a snippet of a story in the very beginning about a broken man (warning: it’s about a man who pulled the trigger with a gun held to his head)... and then the beauty that came from this brokenness when he committed to intentionally building his marriage and family. In this episode, Pastor Paul and Lori Elder (pastor in Pueblo, CO for 30+ years) teach us practical tips about building traditions in our marriage and family — whether we come from intact families or from broken homes. The “I love your more than ______” is a tradition that Pastor Paul and Lori Elder have done in their marriage and with their kids for decades. “Our intention with that was to instill the idea that love for one another is greater than things,” he said. And then she added, “You can make anything a tradition — just something that you repeat, that the kids know is going to happen.” From ways to read Chinese fortune cookies to Totino pizzas in a mini oven, to the very traditions that bind us together as a church family — this episode is chock-full of practical traditions and spiritual insight for your marriage and family. Book Recommendations from Team Elder: Creative Correction The Book of Virtues Zeal without Burnout "Mary Did You Know" - by the Elder Family   Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com   P.S. Here are the links to the marriage card decks we talk about in the episode: FOUNDATIONS: https://amzn.to/2RaXF7g SEXPECTATIONS: https://amzn.to/2GbVMRA REALIZATIONS: https://amzn.to/3brNTWh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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One night he sent the kids out in the car, took a gun in front of Tina, put it to his head,

0:36.3

and said, I'm ending it all right now. Pulled the trigger

0:39.4

and it didn't go off. It misfired. He pulled the trigger again and it misfired again.

0:44.6

It's very encouraging now to see their son, James and Tina's son, AJ, who would come over,

0:51.9

he would always show up at our house around supper time.

0:55.0

And he would stand outside the bait window and he would look in to see what we were eating.

1:00.0

And so, of course, we would go out, AJ, you want to come in and eat?

1:03.0

Yeah, yeah.

1:04.0

But now AJ has his own family, he has two children.

1:08.0

They just bought a house and him and Joanna have started their own traditions.

1:15.5

Dear young married couple, you're in a busy season of your life.

1:20.7

You're probably working and involved in ministry.

1:23.6

On top of that, you might even be parents or students.

1:27.6

You're maxed, but you really want to stay connected in your marriage.

1:32.1

And that's why we're bringing this podcast to you.

1:34.6

I'm Adam King.

1:35.5

And I'm Carissa King, and we work with busy couples just like you in our counseling office

1:39.8

here in Sacramento, California.

1:41.6

We also work with couples all over the world through online counseling,

1:45.1

and our couples are really just looking for ways to communicate with each other more effectively.

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