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TILT Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children

TPP 445: Myriam Sandler on Raising Confident, Creative Kids Through Independent Play

TILT Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children

Debbie Reber

Education, Parenting, Kids & Family

4.8983 Ratings

🗓️ 27 May 2025

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Creating a home environment that supports meaningful play can feel like a constant puzzle, from managing toy overload to setting up spaces that actually encourage focus, creativity, and independence. So today I’m sharing a conversation with Myriam Sandler, the creator of the hugely popular Mothercould platform and the author of the new book Playful by Design: A Stress-Free Guide to Raising Confident, Creative Kids through Independent Play. As a mother of three, Myriam shares engaging, easy-to-follow video tutorials that offer accessible DIY play ideas, parenting hacks, family travel tips, and more on her wildly popular Instagram and TikTok. Though I’m no longer dealing with toys lying around the house and cluttering our communal spaces, I definitely found life with my child’s toys challenging, from how to organize them and store them, to how to avoid having too many toys that never got used. I really could have used Myriam’s insights way back then. But if you’re still very much in it and sharing a home and life with things like toys, art supplies, and more, have a listen to this episode. Myriam and I discussed the power of independent play and why less is more when it comes to toys, how boredom can actually be a gift, and how small tweaks, like decluttering a play space or setting up “play hotspots,” can make a big difference in your child’s ability to play solo. Myriam really believes in making the space you have, the toys you have, and the system you implement work for you instead of trying to make someone else’s system work for your family. I hope you walk away feeling empowered knowing that you don’t need a ton of new things but just some time to evaluate what’s working and what’s not.   About my guest Myriam Sandler is the creator of Mothercould (@mothercould), a beloved kids’ activity and family lifestyle community trusted by millions of families. As a mother of three, Myriam shares engaging, easy-to-follow video tutorials that offer accessible DIY play ideas, parenting hacks, family travel tips, and more. Mothercould has grown to offer family-friendly, problem-solving products now available at major retailers.   You'll learn: Why boredom is an important aspect of sparking creativity and self-directed play How fewer toys can lead to deeper, more meaningful play The way that decluttering creates space for imagination to flourish What the key ingredients to independent play are, and what means and looks like The importance of boundaries and consistency in supporting sustained solo play How play “hotspots” and sensory activities can foster connection and emotional release  Resources: Mothercould Playful by Design: A Stress-Free Guide to Raising Confident, Creative Kids through Independent Play by Myriam Sandler Mothercould on Instagram Mothercould on Facebook Playful By Design website Mothercould on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Every runner knows the moment when everything clicks.

0:04.0

When your legs lock into a rhythm, the aches float away and doubts fade.

0:08.0

Replaced by a feeling of euphoria.

0:12.0

It's why you lace up at dawn.

0:15.0

Why little rain doesn't stop you.

0:17.0

Why one run turns into a habit.

0:20.0

So next time you go for a run, chase that runs high. why one run turns into a habit.

0:24.3

So next time you go for a run, chase that runs high.

0:28.1

Learn more about running and go wild at puma.com.

0:33.5

You need to declutter before you bring in more items.

0:54.3

So giving the child visibility and access to things that you already have. Don't spend any more money. Look at what you actually have. Put it all in one space. Declutter. And then you're like, okay, I actually do need a really good storage system for these 10 cars.

0:58.5

She could actually use a new puzzle because the puzzles that she has are missing four pieces.

1:01.3

Like, evaluate what you have.

1:06.2

So then you can go out and really buy the things that you actually need. So less is more for independence.

1:08.4

And I think that goes for any child across any spectrum.

1:12.8

Less is more.

1:16.4

I'm Debbie Reber and welcome to Tilled Parenting, a podcast featuring interviews and conversations

1:21.6

aimed at inspiring, informing, and supporting parents raising differently wired kids.

1:26.3

Creating a home environment that supports

1:28.2

meaningful play can feel like a constant puzzle from managing toy overload to setting up spaces

1:33.6

that actually encourage focus, creativity, and independence. So today I'm sharing a conversation

1:39.1

with Miriam Sandler. She's the creator of the hugely popular Mother Could Platform and the author of the new book,

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