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ProjectME with Tiffany Carter – Entrepreneurship & Millionaire Mindset

Toxic positivity and a Bunch of Other Crap that is Pissing me off in the Online Coaching Space EP359

ProjectME with Tiffany Carter – Entrepreneurship & Millionaire Mindset

Tiffany Carter

Entrepreneurship, Business, Self-improvement, Education

4.91.9K Ratings

🗓️ 15 November 2021

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

 It felt like gut punch and humiliation rolled into one!

"Your audience size doesn't meet our requirements, so we will have to politely decline your request to have her on your show."

I've received a version of this response at least 8 times since starting my podcast.

At first, I was pissed and offended. Like you are telling me that my show and social media audience isn't worth your time for you to get free publicity for your business on my fantastic show?!!! Then it quickly turned into shame.

"Who am I doing being this?"

"Oh my God they must think I'm such a loser."

"Here I thought my show is good, but it must be a piece of sh*t."

What's even wilder is I supported and even promoted some of these people…which felt extra crappy and rejecting.

The reality is there is no escaping rejection and disappointment when you are building your dream business.

Some people will let you down. Some people will use you. Some people will con you. Some people will say no.

However, you will also have people who over-deliver, who blow you away with their generosity, who say, "yes" happily, even when you thought it was a long shot.

But if you never risk asking and being vulnerable, everything is a NO.

I know some of you avoid asking me to be on your podcast, speak at your events, or guest coach your people, because you assume that you are not "at my level yet," and that I would even think it was silly of you to ask….NOT TRUE!

>>> In fact, it's the opposite. I'm honored and flattered that you trust me to serve your people.

This online space is filled with a ton of BS and fake people, but there are also some beautiful high-integrity people who are doing great work. Yes, it stings when you feel rejected or duped…but I don't want you to shut everyone down because of it.

Otherwise you are cheating yourself out of the incredible opportunity to work with someone like me, to have the dream guest on your podcast, or to get that dream speaking gig.

You know what feels better than anything…having those same people want to be on my show now that it's super successful, and I get to "politely" say no.

If you are in the mood to hear a major Tiff rant on all of the BS that goes on in the coaching industry that I'm incredibly sick of, head to the link in my bio and download this new feisty AF episode.

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Welcome to ProjectME the Podcast with your host Tiffany Carter, who takes the mystery out of making BIG money? A former NBC and CBS TV journalist, turned multi-millionaire entrepreneur, teaching you all things wealth, health, worth, and business. You can follow Tiffany on Instagram @projectme_with_tiffany  on Facebook @projectmewithtiffany and watch her TV episodes on ProjectME TV with Tiffany Carter on YouTube.

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0:00.0

Welcome to Project Me The Podcast. I'm your host Tiffany Carter, the founder of Project

0:13.6

Me, multi-millionaire entrepreneur, former TV newscaster, money-making expert, female

0:19.8

empowerment speaker, and self-proclaimed office supply addict. My mission is to take the

0:25.2

mystery out of making big money. Every week on Project Me The Podcast, I'll share success

0:30.6

tips, strategies, and stories from other entrepreneurs, experts, and millionaires, showing you exactly

0:37.8

how you can achieve your most exceptional life. Now let's get to it.

0:48.9

Welcome to Project Me with Tiffany Carter, the podcast and posse. I'm your host Tiffany,

0:55.4

and you are definitely getting some tip rant today. And you're also going to hear me

1:02.6

just generally venting. There's a purpose behind it. I love a good vent, and I feel that

1:10.3

it is long overdue. We're talking about toxic positivity and a bunch of other crap that

1:16.9

is pissing me off in the online coaching space. That I don't hear anyone else talking

1:22.5

about, maybe because they don't want to ruffle feathers. They don't want to piss off

1:25.9

poly the influencer. They don't want anyone to think they're not, you know, being hashtag

1:31.5

women supporting women or are supporting other entrepreneurs or whatever it is. I really

1:38.4

don't care. Because I know what is going on online right now, and it's out of control

1:45.1

is making you feel like shit. It's putting you in a state of comparison, itis feeling less

1:51.8

than doubting yourself, creating shame, making you even want to avoid social media altogether,

1:59.2

which is making you play small in your business and not show up and do the content that you

2:03.3

need to do. It's causing all sorts of crap, and I'm sick of it. And what I also don't

2:08.9

like is how many of you have spent money, thousands of dollars on programs, on mastermines,

2:18.5

on courses, on coaching, on things that gave you these false expectations and these insane

2:27.1

over promises of something that just straight up isn't possible. And you know I'm a master

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