Next time on Dear Alice.

I also think that you should all give yourself some credit because you've lived for a long time right?

I don't know if you're in your 20s or your 30s or your 40s or your 50s but all of that

timeline that you've been alive. There's been different trends that have come and gone

over certain decades and you've seen how things have changed over time. I'm in my 40s. gone over

time. I'm in my 40s and I remember things from the 80s as a girl and then things from the 90s as a girl

and then things from the 90s as a graduate in high school and into college and then being married right in the early 2000s right I've seen these trends come and go the 2010s we can see him and we know how we feel about him like ill never again right and so we recognize those

things coming back again things from when I was in high school one of the hottest

things right now is 90s fashion and I was like well that's easy I was I was I graduated from high school in the 90s right we see we see these

these fashions coming back again pleaded pants baggy shirts all these things and you're like do you know what I know my body

doesn't look good in pleated pants.

I'm not going to do it.

I don't care if it's trending.

Because you recognize it now the first time you had to do it

because you were in high school, you were insecure,

you didn't know yourself.

But now you know yourself yourself you've seen these trends

come and go and you know it's a trend and you know it's true style and you know what

looks good on your body and you know what you like in your home do you know what I

mean totally you know authentically what is going to feel good to you long term because you've always

liked it, right?

There's certain things about your wardrobe that's been true or about when you put your makeup on that you love a wingy eyeliner.

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