Toni Tone and Taiwo: The Reason Why Men AVOID Confident Women

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson

FlightStory

Leisure, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 652 Ratings

🗓️ 12 November 2024

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

Toni Tone and Taiwo Ogebule share the transformative journey that has redefined their approach to love and relationships.Through overcoming personal challenges, cultural pressures, and managing a long-distance romance, they reveal how a foundation of trust, mutual respect, and deep emotional connection has kept their bond strong. Together, they challenge conventional narratives around attachment, masculinity, and "struggle love," showing how self-discovery and resilience create a partnership that goes beyond expectations. Follow Toni Here: Toni's TikTok: https://g2ul0.app.link/JazIAMKurOb Toni's Instagram: https://g2ul0.app.link/sFCGcJOurOb Follow Taiwo Here: Taiwo's TikTok: https://g2ul0.app.link/0wuUp8WurOb Taiwo's Instagram: https://g2ul0.app.link/pUhyd2SurOb Follow Me Here: https://www.instagram.com/needtotalk https://www.tiktok.com/@weneedtotalkpod 00:00 Introduction to the Episode 03:04 Dating Culture Differences: USA vs. UK 05:15 Toni and Taiwo’s Relationship Histories 06:18 How Relationships Can Impact Attachment Styles 11:06 How Toni and Taiwo Met: Their Love Story 16:22 Toni’s Viral Tweet After Their First Call 16:53 Understanding Demisexuality: What Does It Mean? 18:23 Tips for Maintaining a Long-Distance Relationship 20:46 Managing Conflict Across Borders: Toni and Taiwo’s Approach 25:49 The Biggest Misconceptions About Our Relationship 29:51 What Makes a “Good Man” in Modern Dating? 30:55 Shopify Ad 31:54 Huel Ad 33:25 What Is Gut Instinct and Why It’s Important in Love 35:37 Breaking Down “Struggle Love” and Its Impact 38:51 Can a Strong Woman Really Intimidate Men? 49:00 Our Most Memorable Conversations Together 54:24 Key Takeaways from Paul 56:59 Tinder Ad Sponsored by: Shopify: www.shopify.co.uk/needtotalk Huel: huel.com/paul use code PAUL Tinder: https://tinder.com/en-GB Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	In today's episode, our guest, Tony Tone and Taiwo Ogibule bring us an inspiring look at their long-distance
0:06.6	relationship, showing how embracing self-awareness and prioritizing your own values can help
0:12.9	build the foundation for a thriving relationship. Tony, a celebrated author, has inspired millions
0:19.8	online by openly sharing her journey towards
0:22.9	self-discovery and the wisdom she has learned through her relationships.
0:27.1	Her partner, Tywo, a tech consultant and content creator, brings his own grounded perspective
0:32.6	on what makes a long-distance partnership work.
0:35.2	In today's episode, we discuss how previous relationships can shape our attachment styles
0:39.9	in the future.
0:40.8	You said that your ex-partner was avoided.
0:43.3	You walked in there secure.
0:45.5	Yeah.
0:45.8	Did I leave secure?
0:47.6	That's the question.
0:49.1	One thing I have learned about attachment style in hindsight is that the way someone
0:54.1	loves you can have a massive impact on your
0:57.2	existing attachment style.
0:59.0	We dive into the challenges of long-distance relationships.
1:02.4	Long-distance relationships can be very hard, particularly on women, if they don't feel
1:07.8	reassured.
1:09.3	It's funny because even though at the beginning, he was like,
1:11.4	I'm not moving to London.
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