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Dear Future Wifey

To Have and To Hold (Guest: Gerry Fisher)

Dear Future Wifey

Laterras R. Whitfield

Religion & Spirituality, Relationships, Education, Christianity, Society & Culture

51.9K Ratings

🗓️ 1 September 2021

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

The traditional marriage vows were created in 1549 and were first introduced in the Book of Common Prayers. Today, we’re unpacking the vow “To Have and To Hold” with a 51-year-old divorcee, Gerri Fisher. Listen as he transparently shares the moments when this sacred vow was violated and how it lead to the demise of his marriage. Never take for granted the life-long privilege “To Have and To Hold.” Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-future-wifey/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0

You know, my ex-wife really did want to make it work.

0:02.9

And, you know, I know she was praying over me

0:05.7

and, you know, she was going to, you know,

0:07.8

to her prayer closet.

0:08.8

Yeah.

0:09.6

You know, all of me.

0:10.9

But, you know, I was just like,

0:12.1

hey, you know what, I'm not ready to, you know,

0:13.9

to cut this out, you know, I'm still lying.

0:15.9

You told her you wasn't ready to stop this?

0:17.6

No, I didn't tell her that.

0:18.7

I just did not, like, hey, I would lie and say,

0:21.3

I'm done, like, hey, I'm not talking to this person.

0:23.6

I would stop talking to this one person.

0:26.3

You just start talking to this one person.

0:28.0

Somebody else.

0:28.8

I go, okay, I'm going on to the next person.

0:31.0

That's not what happened and I couldn't believe it.

0:35.7

She moved on.

0:36.9

I made vows.

0:38.7

I broke them.

0:39.9

Hindsight.

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