TLS #128 with Matthew Hussey: Attracting The Partner You Want, Online Dating & Personal Growth
The Lively Show
Bella Lively
4.6 • 1.6K Ratings
🗓️ 10 March 2016
⏱️ 72 minutes
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Summary
Today on The Lively Show, we’re speaking with New York Times bestselling author, Today Show dating expert, and Cosmopolitan dating columnist, Matthew Hussey of How To Get The Guy.
I first found Matthew’s YouTube channel several months ago, and I have since become a huge fan of his practical and empowering advice which helps millions of women improve their confidence in the dating world and beyond.
As someone who is new to dating in the online era, Matthew’s advice concerning attracting the partner you want, dating site/app do’s + don’ts, and texting have been particularly helpful for me personally.
This episode is perfect for anyone looking to attract the partner they really want, learn how to approach online dating intentionally, hear about Matthew’s own personal journey as a well-respected coach at the age of 28.
IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL FIND OUT ABOUT
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Matthew tells us how he began his career in self development as a child by studying self-help books on a continuous basis.
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He tells us how he figured out that the “secret sauce” of successful people was simply the way they acted around people.
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Matthew was always self-aware of what he needed to do to improve his situation at various times in his life.
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He tells us how he went from helping men to helping women with relationship advice since they needed to hear from someone who knows how men are.
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Mathew explains how he modeled himself from his “mentor” Tony Robbins and it took years to develop his own style and method for himself.
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He’s tells us that women tend to gravitate to people they are comfortable with which is the reason they seem to get the same quality of men in their lives.
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Matthew says that the only way to get a guy that you want is to break from what is comfortable for you.
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He explains that you need one really great dimension of yourself to make you attractive to another person.
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Mathew talks about how he shows people how to develop their unique pairings over time which can make them irresistible to the opposite sex.
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| 0:00.0 | You're listening to The Lively Show, episode 128. |
| 0:04.0 | Welcome to the Lively Show. |
| 0:07.0 | I'm your host Jess Lively, and this blogcast is designed to uplift, inspire, |
| 0:11.0 | and add a little extra intention to your everyday. |
| 0:14.0 | Welcome to the show guys. |
| 0:20.0 | Thank you so much as always for listening. I really appreciate the fact that you're here. |
| 0:27.2 | Today's episode is sponsored by audible.com. Audible is a great way to keep up with your reading the same way that you listen to your |
| 0:33.9 | podcasts. They have a huge selection of audio books including today's interview subject, |
| 0:38.4 | get the guide by Matthew Hussey. So you can hop over to audible.com backslash lively to get a free 30 day trial of the service and to get a free book credit which you can use for get the guy or any other book you've been wanting to read. |
| 0:52.0 | Now let's move on to today's guests. |
| 0:54.2 | Today we're speaking with Matthew Hussey. |
| 0:56.5 | Matthew Hussey is the dating expert helping women |
| 0:59.6 | to attract the men that they want in their lives over at how to get the guy.com. |
| 1:05.0 | He's also the today show dating expert, Cosmos male dating columnist, |
| 1:09.0 | and he's a New York Times best-selling author of Get the Guy. This episode of course is going to be |
| 1:14.6 | speaking about how females can specifically attract males, but I will say that |
| 1:19.5 | you know no matter what your sexual identity or orientation may be or even if you're a guy |
| 1:23.9 | listening trying to attract females I think there's something for everyone here |
| 1:27.6 | though we are primarily going to be focusing on Matthew's focus which is |
| 1:31.8 | helping women attract men. |
| 1:33.6 | Please feel free to adapt his techniques or his tactics to ways that work for you in your situation. |
| 1:38.4 | In this episode we're going to talk about online dating and what to do and not to do things that we can use to |
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