Threesomes. Who, what, where, when and why?
Authentic Sex with Juliet Allen
Juliet Allen
4.8 • 582 Ratings
🗓️ 18 June 2017
⏱️ 24 minutes
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Summary
Threesomes: who, what, where, when and why? In this episode I talk about my own personal experience exploring threesome dynamics, plus share my top tips for how to have a successful and fun threesome (whether you're single, or in a relationship). This podcast includes how to negotiate a threesome, why communication is so important, where and how to find your ideal threesome team, and why discussing boundaries and consent is crucial.
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| 0:00.0 | This is the Authentic Sex Podcast, real-life conversations about sex, pleasure and relationships. |
| 0:07.6 | I'm your host, Juliet Allen. |
| 0:41.8 | I'm your host, Juliet Allen. Threesums. Today I've chosen to talk about threesomes. Who, what, where, when and why should we be having them this has always been something i've loved talking about from a very young age i've been very interested in threesomes |
| 0:48.3 | and um at the age of 23, perhaps younger, I experienced my first threesome. |
| 1:00.5 | So I do get a lot of questions from clients about threesomes |
| 1:04.0 | and from people who write to me via email saying, |
| 1:07.6 | what should I do? I want to experience one or we're a couple and we really want to |
| 1:13.7 | try having a threesome but we don't know where to find the ideal person etc etc so today I'm going to |
| 1:22.9 | talk about my own personal experience with threesomes and then I'm going to talk about my top |
| 1:28.8 | tips for how to have a great threesome. This podcast is for people who are in a relationship or |
| 1:34.9 | are single so it's for everybody today. Okay so my own personal experience of threesomes began when I was approximately 23, 22, I'd say. |
| 1:50.5 | I was living overseas with a boyfriend at the time and we were very experimental sexually. |
| 2:06.5 | I had always had this fantasy of having a threesome with two women and a man, myself included, as one of the women. And so we were partying quite a bit and we |
| 2:16.8 | actually, I think we actually got online and this was a long |
| 2:20.0 | time ago. This was about 10 years ago but we got online and we found this woman and she was |
| 2:28.2 | awesome, really fun, outgoing. We got along great. Long story short, we ended up having a threesome. Now, we knew |
| 2:37.7 | nothing about how to have a great threesome. We just knew it was something that we wanted to |
| 2:42.3 | explore as a couple. So we didn't discuss our boundaries and we didn't really discuss how we |
| 2:50.8 | wanted it to roll out. |
| 2:52.1 | We just jumped in the deep end, which is what a lot of people do and that's okay. |
| 2:56.8 | What happened was we, I think, halfway through the threesome, |
| 3:04.6 | I realised that my partner at the time was not using protection with the other woman. |
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