Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago,

and I've been documenting my journey ever since, sharing my life lessons and revelations.

I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated.

Before I get to the three signs that your relationship is in trouble, I just want to thank you for listening.

Thank you for, if you've ever shared any of my podcast episodes or told a friend about my podcast.

Sincerely, thank you so much.

It's something that I enjoy doing.

It doesn't feel like work.

It makes me feel empowered and of service. I actually also really like talking to myself.

Well, I don't think I'm actually talking to myself.

I'm talking to you, but I am talking to myself in the sense that there's no one in front

of me or around me when I'm doing these. So I like it.

It connects me to myself, that nine-year-old in the 80s playing with his Legos. I remember I used to

lock myself in my room for hours.

I mean, I would forget to eat.

I would lose track of time.

And I would just have thousands of Lego pieces that I've collected, you know, over the years.

And like every birthday, every Christmas, I just wanted Legos.

And I would just get obsessed with building something.

And then, you know, eventually come out the next day or after many hours and show my friends what I've built.

And they didn't care.

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