The Words You Need To Know When Dealing With a Narcissist (Part 1)
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
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🗓️ 2 August 2025
⏱️ 15 minutes
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Summary
If you are new to narcissism and personality styles this video is for you. This video goes into the different words that you need to know in order to stay safe and possibly set yourself free. Narcissistic people use certain words and those are some terms that you need to know in order to protect yourself. Here are the words I cover today. A- Accountability, AbuseB- Blame Shifting, BoundariesC- Control, calculated, Competing, CovertD- Devaluation, Deflection, DiscardE- Excuses, Entitlement, EgoF- Flying monkeys, False Self
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| 0:00.0 | The ABCs of narcissism. |
| 0:03.0 | The narcissistic alphabet. |
| 0:06.0 | That's what we're starting today, y'all. |
| 0:08.0 | We have a four video series coming up about the ABCs of narcissism. |
| 0:12.0 | Why assign each letter is going to be assigned a word or words that are associated with narcissism or narcissistic abuse, right, to help you understand |
| 0:22.6 | it, to help you dig into it a little bit deeper, right? Each video is going to have six letters, |
| 0:28.0 | the last two will have seven. So today we're going from A to F, A to F. We're going to hop right |
| 0:36.0 | into it, y'all. A stands for Apple, uh, Apple. No, I'll just get it. A, the letter A stands for accountability, right? Narcissistic people cannot, y'all, y'all, you want to see a narcissist kryptonite? Try to hold them accountable for something that they have done. |
| 0:56.7 | You hear me. |
| 0:57.5 | For something that they have actually done. |
| 1:00.9 | You hold them accountable. |
| 1:02.4 | You bring up accountability. |
| 1:03.6 | You try to just mention it in a sentence form. |
| 1:08.1 | That narcissistic person is going to feel attacked. |
| 1:10.2 | They might shut down. They might lose their minds on on you and it might try to come for you right this is part of it right here so a can stand for accountability or or or or there's always an or right or and or it can stand for abuse because I would say most narcissists in relationships become abusive in some way shape or form right when I say abuse everybody tends to kind of sway towards the physical abuse right they're like physically abusive the narcissist can be physically abusive it's not just |
| 1:44.5 | physical abuse narcissistic abuse it's psychological it's deep right it's not just surface level |
| 1:50.0 | stuff it's not just physical abuse i'm not saying physical abuse is just surface level but it's deeper right |
| 1:55.7 | it's physical abuse it's emotional abuse it's narciss's narcissistic abuse. Abuse is abuse, right? |
| 2:02.6 | Verbal abuse. All the abuses. A melting pot of abuse. The cauldron of abuse. So A can stand for accountability, but it can also stand for abuse. |
| 2:13.9 | Now, what else could A stand for? Y'all can drop some suggestions for the series coming forward as well y'all. |
| 2:19.7 | If y'all have a thought, drop into the comment session. |
| 2:21.7 | Seriously. |
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