The Truth About Married Sex

Cat & Nat Unfiltered

Cat & Nat

Relationships, Kids & Family, Parenting, Funny, Society & Culture, Comedy, Momtruths, Women's Podcast, Life

5 • 2.6K Ratings

🗓️ 21 November 2025

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

Marriage and relationships aren’t all candlelight and spontaneous passion. Sex can feel like a chore, and desire doesn’t just magically appear. Women are carrying all the mental load—and it’s exhausting. Men? They’re just horny. From feeling like a house manager instead of a partner, to forgetting to flirt, laugh, and touch, we’re breaking down why intimacy fades and how to bring the spark back in a long-term relationship.

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0:00.0	Let's get to the truth, everyone, about married sex and relationships.
0:04.0	They don't fall apart because people stop loving each other.
0:06.9	No?
0:07.3	They fall apart because people stop showing up for the parts that feel awkward,
0:11.8	inconvenient, or unsexy.
0:14.6	Now, inconvenience is a big one.
0:17.3	Drop it like a hot.
0:18.2	Drop like a hot.
0:19.1	Drop like a hot.
0:20.0	Natalie, what do I do? I hope it's a hot. Drop like a hot. Natalie, what do I do?
0:23.5	It opens giddy-gitty.
0:26.0	Okay, it's Friday.
0:26.8	Okay.
0:27.1	Guys, it is Friday.
0:28.8	And we have not been home in a hot minute in our studio.
0:33.2	I love our people are just like, where do you guys work from?
0:35.6	It's like, we actually do do you know and it we can
0:38.1	officially say without actually lying that we have a studio in our house you know because it used to just be
0:43.2	their car this needs to change though yeah it needs to be less vagina yeah reminds me of an opening vagina
0:50.5	I actually like it no I... You like the wood.
0:55.7	I think we could do wood all around, but I don't want to have to ask your husband to do it.
0:59.3	And I can find a planer thing.
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