So up guys, Derek more plates more dates.com. I want to make a quick video on what I think are the top three places to meet women. And this is even if you have no friends, the title is, you know, a bit misleading. Because I don't, I don't just mean if you have no friends. Like, let's say you move to a new area and you literally don't know anybody, like that's another situation in which

it might be kind of overwhelming and you wouldn't even know where to start in terms of building

social circle or, you know, meeting women, especially if you're used to getting them headed to you

on a silver platter throughout social circle meetups and parties and whatnot. So let's just say you're

in either situation where you don't

really know anybody. You're in a new area. You're sort of introvert. You don't have any friends

to begin with. I think these are the top three places to meet people. And typically places like

clubs just to disclose, I feel are extremely overrated. Reason being the likelihood of a club being right within walking distance of your place,

typically very low.

There's usually, you know, the loudness of the music is a huge inhibiting factor of having

a fluid conversation is another thing.

And in general, when girls go out to clubs,

they're in bigger groups. And they're typically traveling from further away and have some sort

of plan to go back with their friends, with their friend group. And it's just a lot less likely

they're going to break off from the group. At least in my experience, all the good clubs are downtown usually, unless you have a spot literally in the heart

of downtown or wherever the clubs are at in your area. You can easily, you know, invite people back for a drink

or whatever, um, and break them off from the group and then, you know, go back later or whatever the

plan is. Typically clubs are subpar in terms of

efficiency in my opinion and just like overall being able to meet people. Even, you know, making

friends in general at clubs is harder because you can't use your social skills as much. It's more

physical game, sort of, than verbal.

So even if you've developed, you know, your social freedom over the years and have great conversation skills, you're pretty limited in what you can do at clubs.

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