'The Ten Year Affair,' 'Sex of the Midwest' look at the role of sex in domestic life
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🗓️ 21 November 2025
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, it's NPR's Book of the Day. I'm Andrew Limbong. Today we're going to talk about sex, |
| 0:08.0 | not explicitly or anything, but actually now that I think about it, the books we're going to talk |
| 0:13.0 | about today are less about the act of sex and more about how our sex lives map on to our |
| 0:20.5 | everyday lives, our jobs, our bills, our friends, and |
| 0:23.6 | neighbors. Up ahead, a sex survey gets sent around a small Midwestern town. But first, Aaron Summers's |
| 0:29.7 | novel, The Ten Year Affair, is a bit of a throwback to a certain style of literary domestic |
| 0:35.1 | dramas that don't seem to be super in vogue these days. |
| 0:38.4 | Think work by John Cheever or Richard Yates. |
| 0:41.7 | But Summers says what makes middle class malaise different for this generation is that, |
| 0:47.1 | well, that house with a white picket fence isn't as attainable anymore. |
| 0:51.9 | And that does affect your sex life. |
| 0:54.8 | My conversation with Aaron Summers after the break. |
| 0:58.3 | To all the married folks listening, let me ask you a question. |
| 1:02.0 | You ever have a crush on someone, not your partner? |
| 1:05.5 | Maybe someone at work or in your friend group. |
| 1:08.4 | Nothing too serious. |
| 1:10.4 | But then, do you ever think about what would happen if? |
| 1:14.6 | Or how would it go if you grazed their hand or kissed or found yourselves in a hotel room |
| 1:20.3 | together? |
| 1:21.0 | In the new novel, The Ten Year Affair, our protagonist, Cora, thinks about it a lot, so much |
| 1:27.1 | so that it blurs a line between what's real |
| 1:29.2 | and what's just fantasy. Or maybe fantasies are real. Either way, author Aaron Summers, |
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