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The Iced Coffee Hour

The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F*ck | The Secret of Life, Sex and Money

The Iced Coffee Hour

Graham Stephan/Jack Selby

Entrepreneurship, Business

4.6679 Ratings

🗓️ 3 October 2023

⏱️ 128 minutes

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Netsuite: Take advantage of NetSuite’s FREE KPI checklist: https://www.netsuite.com/ICED Streamyard: Start creating high-quality content easily with https://clickurl.ca/ICH-StreamYard Mark's Channel:    / @uc0tnw9acnxqeojxxdmbohca   Malka Media: https://www.malkamedia.com/ NEW: Join us at http://www.icedcoffeehour.club for premium content - Enjoy! Add us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jlsselbyhttps://www.instagram.com/gpstephan TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Intro 05:48 - How To Get Girls - With Mark Manson 25:27 - Social Media Is Creating Social Anxiety 41:03 - How Mark Came Up With "The Subtle Art.. 01:09:10 - Contemplating Mortality 01:22:05 - How Money Changed Mark Manson 01:28:50 - How Mark Learned To Say No 01:55:02 - Mark's Biggest Insecurity 01:58:26 - Mark's Best Book Recommendations 02:02:42 - Enduring The Right Types Of Pain Official Clips Channel:    / @theicedcoffeehourclips   For sponsorships or business inquiries reach out to: [email protected] For Podcast Inquiries, please DM @icedcoffeehour on Instagram! *Some of the links and other products that appear on this video are from companies which Graham Stephan will earn an affiliate commission or referral bonus. Graham Stephan is part of an affiliate network and receives compensation for sending traffic to partner sites. The content in this video is accurate as of the posting date. Some of the offers mentioned may no longer be available. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

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Any single person who does that man or woman, it's going to make your dating life easier.

0:34.4

How could you offer thousands of dollars in value?

0:39.4

You couldn't. I would approach a woman and if she was not enthusiastically into me, I would say, nice to meet you,

0:44.9

have a nice night. But what if she was extremely attractive? So maybe this is where Tate actually

0:50.4

comes in handy. Can I ask how much you made from the book?

1:00.8

Thank you so much for coming on the iced coffee. Really? Let me say that again. Too early.

1:06.0

Thank you so much for coming on the iced coffee hour. We really appreciate it. I'm a huge fan of your book, The Subtle Art of Not Giving an F. I am someone who gives an F about too many things. I

1:11.3

overthink everything. This book was recommended to me or it came up. Someone sent it to me.

1:16.8

I can't remember exactly how it came across it. I read it and it completely changed my mindset in

1:21.0

terms of what to prioritize, what to give an F about, and just I guess life in general about

1:26.8

kind of letting things go, which I'm really bad at

1:29.3

so for that I thank you and I'm so grateful for you to come on I appreciate that yeah when did the

1:34.0

desire to become an author start uh maybe like late 20s late 20s 27 28 so it was I'm assuming after

1:42.9

you spent plenty of time introspecting and kind of like fostering

1:46.1

the current philosophy that you have?

1:47.7

Kind of, yeah.

1:48.7

I, you know, there's a funny, there's a saying with writing, which is, um, writing

1:55.8

imitates life, so you need to like go out and live.

2:00.3

I think I spent most of my 20s just like living and trying a bunch of shit.

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