The Spirit of Division | Winning the Emotional War in Marriage | Part 4
Established Family Podcast
Derek Palizay
5.0 • 585 Ratings
🗓️ 20 March 2026
⏱️ 36 minutes
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Summary
Part 4 exposes the spirit of division operating through a soulish spouse.Scripture draws a clear line between psuchikos (soulish) and pneumatikos (spiritual) in 1 Corinthians 15:42–50. One is governed by the soul—emotions, impulses, instability. The other is governed by the Spirit—life, order, and power.When a spouse is driven by emotions and not submitted to the Spirit, they remain soulish. And a soulish person is not neutral—they are divided, unstable, and susceptible to influence.
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| 0:00.0 | What's going on to Sab's family? Welcome back to the fourth edition of winning the emotional war in marriage. |
| 0:05.0 | Today we're going to be talking about the spirit of division and how it gains access to us when we are in the state of Suquikos, which is being solish. |
| 0:15.5 | So we're going to start by talking about the solish spouse. |
| 0:20.2 | And I don't want you to already have a preconceived notion of, am I talking about myself, |
| 0:24.7 | am I revealing things inside of my spouse, but rather always showing up with the |
| 0:28.3 | contrite heart of Lord. |
| 0:29.7 | What is it that you're trying to reveal to me directly? |
| 0:33.3 | I'm going to test that against your word, and I'm going to allow you to impart something |
| 0:37.4 | new into my soul that brings it under alignment. Right. I'm going to test that against your word, and I'm going to allow you to impart something new |
| 0:37.9 | into my soul that brings it under alignment so that way your spirit can testify with my |
| 0:43.8 | spirit, like it says in Romans 8. |
| 0:45.3 | So when you are soulish, you operate in alignment with the spirit of division. |
| 0:51.3 | You take on its character and its nature. Very similar to what I was |
| 0:56.1 | talking about in the marriage wisdom podcast about the spirit of defeat or the defeated one himself. |
| 1:03.9 | You should be exhausted in your marriage being poured out like a drink offering and being in |
| 1:07.9 | position and calling in assignment, yet you should never be defeated. |
| 1:12.2 | And very similar to the defeated one, you take on the character, the attributes, |
| 1:18.2 | and the nature of the spirit of division when you are in your soulish state. |
| 1:24.6 | So the fruit of being soullish is actually going to show up very tangibly around you. |
| 1:29.6 | You're going to almost be able to quantify and point a point a finger to it. And we can draw a |
| 1:35.3 | straight line between the nature of being solish and the fruit that it produces inside of our |
| 1:42.3 | life. And we're going to do that today. |
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