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The Polyester Podcast

The Sleepover Club: TikTok's Siren Gaze, Dark Femme Energy, Vabbing and The Rise Of Pick Me Behaviour Online

The Polyester Podcast

The Polyester Podcast

Society & Culture, Arts

4.5533 Ratings

🗓️ 11 July 2022

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

The girlies on TikTok are using their vagina fluid as perfume, practising their 'O' faces under the assumption it helps attract a lover, and practising pseudo spirituality as a means of empowering their 'dark femme energy'. But are these practises feminist, or simply pick up artist techniques for the girls? And do these behaviours enable women to take a greater portion of control in relationships, or is it all an illusion? Ione and Halima are discussing all this and much more this week.


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0:00.0

Hi, Halima.

0:01.3

Hi, Iani.

0:02.4

And hello to the listeners. Welcome to the Polyester podcast. I'm Ayoni and I'm the founding editor-in-chief of Polyester and the author of Four Little Sick Girls, which is available now. I'm Halima, the community editor of Polyester Seed and the co-s the Co-Ster podcast. This is The Sleepover Club, a feminist pop culture podcast. We pull apart the hashtag discourse in the hope of making

0:21.2

some sense of it all. Before we get started, please like, great and review. It helps us so much. Any,

0:26.3

do you have any reviews to read that this week? We do! We have Love, Love, Love, with a Love Heart,

0:32.0

five stars. I feel like I'm sitting with my friends having an educated and fun gnatur.

0:37.0

You two, lovely ladies, have such a beautiful dynamic that gets me excited every week when I see a new episode is released.

0:43.2

I love how class, race, gender, privilege, sexuality is all touched upon in each episode,

0:48.4

achieved in a delicate manner.

0:50.2

I truly hope this podcast begins to get the recognition that it deserves.

0:53.9

That is by Moldog in the UK.

1:11.5

Thank you. That's so nice. So cute. Thank you. Halima's got hiccups. That's great. Good time. It's because I was like eight, but it's not going to come back. Okay. Okay. Okay. So what are we talking about today, Halima? Today we're talking about the fact that 22 of boris johnson's government like tori mps have left barris johnson's government and it's rocking the uk

1:18.0

we're actually not talking about that but that's fucking crazy also this morning because i think i'm

1:23.1

going to mention to the podcast and this morning it was 18 and now was 22 so not fucking crazy

1:27.1

how many are there in total what What, how do you have left? Um, no, how many MPs are there? I don't know. Hundreds, right? Probably. Because you need to have, so is that no, maybe there'll be another no confidence vote. Anyway, this is coming out of a week later so it's going to be out of date. Oh, so true actually. But this is happening right now. It's wild. It's happening right now for us, but we're in the future right now. Oh, so like, yeah. Do you ever think of it like that? No. I thought of Elastic when you mentioned that the Zandaya coming, like, this time it was going to be old news. I listened to it. I was like, oh my God, it is old news.

2:04.0

Okay,

2:04.3

okay,

2:07.1

so what are we actually talking about today helena we're talking about sirens and like siren gaze and like what's the other thing that they call it dark femme

2:13.9

energy i liked your title that you put on the research for the sex mood.

2:18.7

The rise in pick me behavior. Because when you sent the tweet, I was thinking, I don't get this.

2:29.1

And then why did research? I was like, this is just pick me behavior really, isn't it?

2:32.1

Okay, okay, okay. Let's take it back. Please explain what siren, dark, feminine energy, what all of this stuff is, please. It is the latest TikTok trend. Yes, so when I, because when I did the research, I kind of just based it on what I was seeing in social media, then I was actually like, wait, hold on. What does this, where does the siren idea

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