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Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a 36-year-old man, and my wife and I split up almost two years ago. She moved on and is dating someone

she met at church. She just had a baby a month ago and she kept it from me for two weeks. I found out

after my pops told me. He said she sent him pictures of her infant daughter and my sister went to visit

the baby a few days ago. My dad said

my sister's kids are in love with the baby already and she's the cutest little thing ever.

I call this woman to see if it was really true because I was told she couldn't have any more

children. I told her how hurt I was the day I found out from my pops. She and I have two

sons and after our second son was born, her doctor said she couldn't have any more children.

I accepted it and was happy with my sons, but I always wanted to have one more child, a daughter,

to spoil rotten. She told me that the baby was a surprise and she apologized

for the way I found out. She called her daughter a miracle baby and a blessing. My heart was broken.

And what makes matters worse is that her daughter was born on my birthday. How crazy is that?

I told her I would love to see the baby and meet her new

boyfriend. She said that wouldn't be possible. And then I had to remind her of the wild night

we had almost a year ago when we slipped up and had unprotected sex three times in one night.

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