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10% Happier with Dan Harris

The Science of Emotion Regulation: Strategies for When You're Anxious, Angry, or Comparing Yourself To Others | Marc Brackett

10% Happier with Dan Harris

10% Media, LLC

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.612.9K Ratings

🗓️ 16 March 2026

⏱️ 78 minutes

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Summary

Yale emotional intelligence expert on how to deal with other people's emotions (and your own).

Marc Brackett, Ph.D. is the author of Dealing with Feeling: Use Your Emotions to Create the Life You Want and the bestselling Permission to Feel. He is the founding director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and a professor in the Child Study Center at Yale University. You can watch Marc's podcast interviews here

In this episode we talk about:

  • How to deal with stress, anxiety and anger
  • How to use gratitude in moments of compare and despair, like when you're on Instagram comparing yourself to other people's lives 
  • How to talk to yourself in moments of high stress
  • How to talk to other people when they're experiencing powerful emotions themselves

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is the 10% Happier Podcast. I'm Dan Harris.

0:08.0

Hello, party people. Today I am talking to a world leading expert on emotional intelligence. He is a professor and researcher from Yale, who is sometimes referred to as the feelings master. We're going to talk about how to deal with stress, anxiety, and anger, how to use gratitude in moments of compare and despair, like when you're on Instagram,

0:38.5

comparing your life to other people's lives, how to talk to yourself in moments of high

0:42.4

stress and how to talk to other people when they're experiencing powerful emotions.

0:48.0

By the way, this is a thing a lot of us avoid or fear dealing with other people's emotions,

0:52.7

but as you're about to hear, my guest makes a very

0:55.0

strong case for developing this skill as a way to vastly improve your own life. And I've seen this

1:01.3

play out in my own life. My guest is Dr. Mark Brackett. He's the founding director of the Yale

1:06.7

Center for Emotional Intelligence. And he's the author of a book called Dealing with Feeling.

1:12.3

Use your emotions to create the life you want. As you know, meditation is a great way to manage

1:16.7

your unruly emotions, so please check out my new meditation app, 10% with Dan Harris. We've got

1:22.1

guided practices for many of the world's greatest teachers. We also do these amazing weekly,

1:28.5

live video meditation and Q&A sessions. There's a ton of evidence that shows that meditating with other

1:33.3

people is a great way to keep the practice going. You can get the app by heading over to

1:38.4

Danharis.com. D-A-N-H-A-R-I-S.com join the party. We'll get started with Dr. Mark Brackett right after this.

1:48.0

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sources of background stress for many of us is money, specifically worrying about whether we've done

2:09.4

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2:15.3

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