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The science behind how parents affect child development | Yuko Munakata

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4.111.9K Ratings

🗓️ 2 May 2023

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Summary

Parents, take a deep breath: how your kids turn out isn't fully on you. Of course, parenting plays an important role in shaping who children become, but psychologist Yuko Munakata offers an alternative, research-backed reality that highlights how it's just one of many factors that influence the chaotic complexity of childhood development. A rethink for anyone wondering what made them who they are today and what it means to be a good parent.

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0:00.0

Ted Audio Collective

0:11.0

You're listening to Ted Talks daily, I'm Elise Hugh.

0:13.7

There is no shortage of parenting advice in the world, so you probably don't need it

0:18.0

from a Ted Talk.

0:19.0

Today, we have anti-parenting advice.

0:21.5

A 2019 archive talk from developmental psychologist Yuko Murukata that doesn't tell us how to

0:27.6

parent, but instead lets us off the hook for shaping who our kids become.

0:31.9

She'll explain after the break.

0:35.9

Five years ago, when Tasha Adams was leaving her husband, the founder of Oathkeeper, Stuart

0:40.5

Rhodes, she kept it a secret.

0:42.8

The one person she told outside her family, the ex-wife of Firebrand Alex Jones.

0:48.6

I'm Anna Sale, and on the Death Sex and Money podcast, here are these two women in conversation

0:53.7

for the first time.

0:55.4

Tasha's plans for watching Stuart Rhodes sentencing this month for his role in January 6th.

1:01.0

That's on Death Sex and Money wherever you get podcasts.

1:05.6

A few years ago, a student came up to me after the second day of my class on parenting and

1:10.9

child development.

1:12.9

She hesitated for a second, and then she confessed.

1:16.4

I'm really interested in this material, but I was hoping your class would help me to become

1:21.2

a better parent if I have kids someday.

1:24.6

She was disappointed.

1:27.1

We were going to talk about how parents do not have control in shaping who their children

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