What's up guys? Welcome back to build. And today I want to share with you a little bit more of a

reflective episode with a tweet that I made earlier this morning. What you see lost 100 pounds,

$100 million net worth by 28, successful marriage and partnership, 2.5 million person audience,

helping thousands operationalize running a company daily. What you don't see.

Five plus years of disordered eating before I figured it out. Six years of working 14 hours a day

because I had no idea what I was doing. Three years daily of reading and researching on relationships

to figure it out because again, I was bad at it. Terrified and avoided making content for four years due to insecurity and still hated daily for who I am.

I don't have superior intellect or skills.

I simply don't take failure personally.

I get back up and I just try again.

This is a reminder for anyone trying to better their life that you only see the results others have today,

solve them the work they put in for years to get there.

You can do and be anything you want. Oh my God. I do not know why I am emotional right now,

but I think, you know, it's the end of the year. I was reflecting on everything that I've been working on,

and I'm not going to lie, like this year has been some of the hardest years that I've worked. You know, I thought I worked hard in the beginning. I've worked just as hard, if not harder in some ways now. And I see so many people, one of two things,

right? I see people on one side of the spectrum saying, God, I wish I could have what you had.

How do you do it? How do you get there? And I feel bad that I don't have enough evidence to show you guys how hard it's been and how long it took and how much work I put in, the hours, and how bad it felt to do,

and how much of a struggle it is to get anything amazing in your life when you first start off.

And it makes me sad that I don't have that

to show people because I want everyone to believe that they can do it too. And I think that's honestly

why I started making content. I was really thinking about the other day as I was reflecting on the

years like, why did I start making content? And it was because I wanted other people to believe

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